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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Fiance has an anger problem and I don't know what to do

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26 January 2011 (F) - So my finance has anger problem and idk what to do anymore. When i meet him he was a happy person he is like a comedian he makes every body laugh but like a year in the relationship i got to meet his family and she argues a lot with his sister .But ...

Flat tire, 6mo preggo, and bf is more worried about his xbox game?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - So I got a flat tire on my way to work. I'm 6 months pregnant and have no cell phone and live in MN where it was a balmy 20*f out today. I was able to stop someone driving by to use their phone and call my dad. My dad came and helped me, the only ...

does he think I'm a whore and he is just a really really good liar?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - ok,this is really confusing me-I have this new boyfriend-we've been seeing each other for a couple of months and he is saying that he loves me and he wants to have a serious relationship and he sounds really genuine and when he says what he likes ...

He's trying to make me feel bad and down about myself and our relationship! And I'm 8 weeks pregnant!

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26 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and just found out I'm 6 weeks pregnant a couple of days ago. I'm over the moon about it and wanna just settle down with my own family! I've never been out clubbing, don't drink, don't have any friends I go to work and literally come home ...

Am I being irrational to want one weekend away together?

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26 January 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for just over two years and we have only been away for ONE night together!! i am a student and have very little money so i know it would be difficult to save up as he would probably end up paying for more. since w...

How do I stop over reacting to little things in a relationship?

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26 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I need some advice on how to stop over-reacting to little things in my relationship...it's like I imagine the worst possible scenario, which makes me feel sad and insecure, and I want to stop it so that I don't become clingy...I'd love some ...

Massive argument at school, and now my former friend hates me!

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26 January 2011 (F) - I had a massive argument at school, the girl I was arguing with took it way too far. I told my mum and she rang school even though I said not to. The teachers haven't been subtle and now the girl I argued with who used to be my friend hates me and ...

Did I make the right decision allowing my son back into their lives?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I have a dilema. I recently started allowing my son (I'll call him Elijah) to see his father's side of the family. He is 18 months old and hasn't seen them in 14 months. During the four months I was still married to his father we lived at his ...

Is my boy friend cheating on me or does he have a drinking problem:?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I've been seeing someone for seven months. We see each other about once a week. We talk on the phone once or twice a week, but otherwise we communicate by email. He used to have his two kids with him most of the time and now his ex-wife has ...

My work environment is now so unhappy. No one is talking to me at work. What have others experienced in the same situation please?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I put in my two weeks notice at work. Now no one is speaking to me! Can any one tell me about their last two weeks at work? Any other "what did you do the last 2 weeks of working at a former job"? I am having a tough time please advise......

Does my ex want to get back together?

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26 January 2011 (F) - so my boyfriend and i broke up 7 days ago because he wasnt happy, we are going to have a baby and we both are 18. we hadnt seen eachother in 8 days because i didn't wont to see him. he still texts me everyday and ask how im doing well last night he...

Being hit because he wants to freely perve

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26 January 2011 (F) - Im 45 and my daughter to him is 9 months old Hi There, My Fiancee and I have been together for 3 years now. He cant stop perving.( he denys it ) I just want his attention, if he sees a hot girl on the tv ( most of the time he changes the chann...

How can a relationship be so one sided?

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26 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I won't bore you with the details but why is it that relationships can be so one sided. I f my partner and i have an argument for whatever reason and some can be huge arguments on the verge of splitting up, Im always the one to try make amends. ...

At 28 I feel lost and confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Dear all, I had my first boyfriend when I was 13, and continued to have long term relationships until the age of 27, moving from one guy to the next almost seamlessly. At 27, I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, because I wanted to settle...

Now she wants our relationship to go sexless until marriage. Should I accept this request?

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26 January 2011 (M) - After leaving a long term relationship, that was based primarily on sexual attraction, I am dating a girl who attracted me more than just physically. We have been dating for about 5 months and have had anywhere from 25-30 sexual encounters. The fir...

I thought he was my true love. But his actions since the breakup make me wonder. How has he been able to move on so soon after our breakup?

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26 January 2011 (F) - My ex is 27, 4 yrs older than me. We were together for 2 years, it felt like true love, he always hinted about the future together we had plans made. We didn't see each other for 2 weeks, due to exams, and he barely texted me. Last week, exams over...

Should I be asking so much about my girl friend's past lovers or should I let it rest? It bothers me so much

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26 January 2011 (M) - Ok. I met my sons mom in 2003,.,we now have a 6 year old son together. back in the begining when we first met we had one of those open conversations about the past.The things she told me didnt bother me at first, then because of the timeline she ...

Should I keep working on our relationship, or should I move on?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my partner for almost 2 yrs and we have a baby girl. I have a hard time talking to him or even getting him to take me seriously. We have had a lot of problems since we had our baby, nothing seems to be good enough for him. I've been ...

She wants to have the wedding after he graduates, he's worried she will cheat!

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26 January 2011 (F) - Hello, My friend is having a problem about her fiancee. They both are in college but my friend is graduating in a year and her fiancee is graduating in four. She wants to tell him that she wants to have the wedding after he graduates but ...

Based on the following would you say this person loves me?

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26 January 2011 (F) - Based on the following would you say this person loves me? Essentially how do you know if someone loves you? The bad: - will not go away on holiday with me, but went away with his ex (his reason: not enough money at the mo) - Took three...

How do I stop my ex from coming over?

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26 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 5 years have recently split up, it wasnt a good break up and i am trying to get on with my life. But my mum and step dad are still having him come round even though they know how i feel, i talk to them every time they have him ...

Why is my boyfriend of 8 years pushing me away?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years this year, last year he went through a tough time at work he lost his job as a manager and now works on the floor where he managed but only temporary until later this year, then hes out, he was very ...

Help me, I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Hi My boyfriend and i been dating for 2 years im 6 months pregnant and ever since i got pregnant we've been fighting alot. First of all our biggest issue we have we aren't financially stable at all. I work 45 hours a week and my boyfriend doesnt ...

I broke my best friend's trust! How do I get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - i am dating a girl and her sister is my bestfriend . her sister told me about a boy who she is dating and told me not to tell it to my girlfriend .but i had to tell it cause my girlfriend forced me and now i broke my bestfriends trust i cant even ...

My boyfriend is not romantic and I feel neglected. What should I do?

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26 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. He is an extremely unromantic person... I feel neglected by him because of this. What should I do?...

Should I tell her that her fiance cheated on her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy. Well, we were just friends. We hung out with each a few times. He introduced me to his friends and introduced him to my sister. I thought we were going to begin a relationship. Well, he went home to visit family. A few da...

I love him & he loves me, but he has a girlfriend! How do I win him over?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My issue is confusing me. I'm absolutely head over heals for this guy at work, but he has a girlfriend. Truth is he has been with this girl almost 2 yrs and he complains about her every single day to me. I'm sure he cares about her, but he has just ...

Should I get back together with this guy, despite all the complications?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I don't know whether I should get back together with my boyfriend. Some history: we met in 2006, when I was 17 and he was 20. A mutual friend introduced us. We clicked instantly and a few months later, near my 18th birthday, we started dating. We ...

Should I consider this a one night stand or what?

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26 January 2011 (F) - background info..I'm in my late 20's and he is in his early 30's. We both have children. I have been talking to this guy I met on and off now for months. On one occasion, we wound up back at his place, but chose to wait to have sex. We have talked o...

He broke up with me, so why is he doing all of this?

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26 January 2011 (F) - :( please i need your help !! i was in a long distance relationship for more than 8 months ,i'm from tunisia and my boyfriend is from england .. we have never met but he said we were going to meet up last december but at that time we were fightin ...

He doesn't come up on any Facebook searches, but he says he has a profile? What is going on?

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26 January 2011 (F) - First off, sorry if this is a stupid question. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and a I love him very much. He's a bit older than me and we met when I rear ended him at a red light. Even though it was a not so good situation we hit it ...

I have no concrete proof, but I feel he is cheating.......

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26 January 2011 (F) - I dont know where to start. I am married for almost 5 years (in March). Early in our relationship, of all people, our dog groomer kept sending texts to my husband saying she could groom our dog but didnt want money for it (wink wink) then emailed ...

I asked for nude pictures of my ex! Was this cheating, and should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - I have a problem that I'm trying to figure out and I hope that I can get some help on here. I appreciate any and all advice. Ok, so I've been in a relationship for a little over 3 months now. It's been amazing every second. I really think that she...

Is it normal to doubt your feelings for someone so soon in a relationship?

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26 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice from male and female readers on whether it is normal to have doubts about how you feel about someone in the first months of a new relationship, please. I've been with my bf for nearly 5 months now. I had been single for ...

Why is he ignoring me?

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26 January 2011 (F) - Why is he ignoring me?? We have been together for nine months and we get on very well and I love him lots and Im sure he loves me lots too!! well he says he does!! The last few weeks he has been dropping me for his friends and not really been ...

Is it time to move on or should I stay confused? How do I help myself?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I have met someone and our "relationship" has been going on for about 2 years.. He knows I have always wanted to be with him.. And the signals (not always the words) showed, in time he would want the same. was great at first.. Still is.. Only there ...

Does she like me any more? Is there anything I can do to rekindle this friendship?

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26 January 2011 (M) - I am a 26 year old guy who has never been in a relationship, I am new to liking girls. I'm currently trying to date a lady who is 32 years old. She has had two relationships, one lasted 10 years, the other less than 1 year. She said because of ...

Should I walk away and hope he finds someone on one of his dating sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My partner and i parted at the beginning of the year, it was i who ended it, as i felt we couldn't carry on anymore as we were. He and i have 2 kids and he now lives with his mum. There were many issues relating to us splitting. Far too many to ...

I'm devastated, what can I do? He's blocked from his life over an email.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - He saw an email to my ex - it was bad. I admit that. But it wasn't from present day! And although he saw it recently, before that he saw my messages telling the ex to leave me alone cuz I was happy with my boyfriend. The email was from a stage in ...

Why would she say her baby daddy is 'irreplaceable' if she supposedly doesn't have any feelings for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - so, I was talking to my girlfriend last night. and we were talking about her friendship with her baby daddy. and she told me, that i was replacable and he was irreplacable. after she tells me she hates him. i can understand keeping a friendsh...

How do I get off this pedestal she's put me on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - So I’ve been casually seeing this girl as a FWB for about 6 months. She’s been a good friend for about a year and a half. She’s been quite overtly keen on me for over a year and initially I distanced myself from her, but gradually ended up ...

How can I overcome this guilt thing....

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26 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for 2 years and during that time we have argued a lot. We both want commitment but have clashed in the past as we have both been on our own a long time and adapting has been difficult. We do love each other but he was ...

Shall I apologize over the phone, by text or to his face or not at all?

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26 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I just spent 5 days with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for 18 months and have spoken about marriage. In the last month we have been spending more time together and bickering more and more. I have been particularly needy and i...

How did my ex forget about me so quickly? Is there any chance he misses me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same OP merged into one post] I was in a Relationship with a guy for 1.5 years. We lived together. He always told me I was the woman of his dreams and we were already talking about marriage. One day we went out for ...

Is my wife still attracted to me?

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26 January 2011 (M) - Me and my wife have been married about 2 years now and we have a beautiful baby girl. However recently our sex life seems to have plummeted. Nowadays I can be romantic and seduce her, or I can come close to begging, yet she rarely ever will accept ...

Should I try to work on this relationship?

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26 January 2011 (M) - Love ! What should I do ? Hi , I am 28 years old, accountant . I live in Canada and traveled to Vietnam last month to visit family. During the last 2 weeks there, I met this girl 20 years old, not really well educated and from a poorer family c...

Why is he always talking about how he likes girls with dark skin when he is in a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. He is 34 I'm 19. Another thing that I don't understand is that he likes dark skin girls but I'm light skin. He likes girls with a big butt and curvy but I have boobs and skinny. He likes girls with no ...

Should I leave my girlfriend? She doesn't do anything to keep me satisfied!

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26 January 2011 (M) - I'm 21 and my gf is 20 and I'm truly in love with her. She's everything I've ever wanted in a woman. However it's not working out between us right now. I use to be an avid pot smoker an I'm trying to quit. My drinking habits have increase...

Is this a joke of a relationship?

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26 January 2011 (F) - My bf took his female friend to dinner, and picked her up from work after he finished work. Yet he made me pay my way to work today (he drives me extremely rarely and he had the day off today so I didn't think it was a big deal). He called me quite ...

What do I do now that a friendship that I thought was golden is now tarnished with lies?

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26 January 2011 (F) - About 3 weeks ago, my boyfriend and I started having some problems. At that time, I vented to a close guy friend, who, after hearing me out, commiserating, and joking around to cheer me up, professed his constant attraction to me. Flattered, I ...

Will vanishing from his life make him realise what he has?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I and my love were together for 2 years. He moved to abroad 6 months back. From the last 3 months, we have been in an on and off relationship. This is exactly what was happening-he used to leave me without giving any reason. I never used to call or ...

Should I trust my boyfriend when he says he's stopped talking to his ex?

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26 January 2011 (F) - hey my boyfriend used to talk to his ex a lot and lied to me about it over and over. should i trust him that he says hes not, it has been a while since i found out?...

I think my boyfriend's mother is jealous of me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriends mum is all over him in front of me. She calls him her gorgeous man. She is widowed but has a good social life. She is polite to me but she makes weird remarks which can be taken two ways such as 'hands off he's mine' and laughs. She ...

Boyfriend went away, kept boring money, wouldn't call me! Should I dump him?

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26 January 2011 (F) - My fiancée went back home to visit his mother who he hasn’t seen for 16years when he was leaving we agreed for him to be only gone for a month but he ended up extending his time to a extra months, where do i start before he left we were head over ...

Why is my ex acting like this?

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26 January 2011 (F) - My ex told me that he wanted to be friends , usually im the 1 that is always chasing him, wanting to be back with him.. this time I decided not to do it. We have broken up so many times and qotten back togetha and its always him not knowing what he ...

Boyfriend is always cranky!

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26 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years now and we love each other very much. I love him and I know he loves me but he has some temper issues that's usually caused by him being tired, busy, stressed, pressured, or uncomfortable. ...

I'm jealous of all the gf's in my bf's past. What's the best way to get over being so jealous?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I, too, am jealous of my bf's exes...and I don't even know why? he is 43, never been married, and has only had a handful of girlfriends. I am 40, and have already been married. We have been together for 3 a little over 3 years, and have a son ...

I feel like I'm at the bottom of his list

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26 January 2011 (F) - I'm questioning whether or not I should stay with my boyfriend? Lately I've been really frustrated with him. I don't know if I still want to be with him or just to walk away. We have been dating for a year and almost 4 months. Our relationship is ...

Help me save my relationship please

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

26 January 2011 (?) - I really hope someone can give me advice before its too late....i am an 18 yr old female my partner is 23 i have known him for four years now and been with him for 12 months, everything was absolutely great when we first got together he was sweet ...

Mistrust: I haven't seen where he lives or anything in his world!

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26 January 2011 (F) - Help! Ive been dating this guy for 6 weeks and it has been like a whirlwind! have had a fantastic time with him. However he is in the process of moving into his flat. I have shown him mistrust as i haven't seen where he lives and haven;t seen any...

I think my boyfriend's mom doesn't like me!

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26 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my bf for over a year. I go to his house at least once a week and so I see him mom alot. I feel like she doesn't make an effort to get to know me. I am shy and soft spoken and bad with small talk but I try to say hi and maybe give ...