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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Does this make him gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - My boy friend has a fantasie of me having both male and female sex organs, and he fantasizes' him preforming oral sex with the male organ, and also doing him from behind. Could this mean he is gay or bi and he's to embarrassed to say anything?? ...

I really need an answer for how to stop being so needy and clingy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hi; I am 45 and have been single for almost 19yrs. Everyone says I am a great person and very good looking. But my friends also say that I am needy and clingy. How do I stop being so needy and clingy? My thought were the reason was becau...

My real life friends want me to delete my online friend from my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - what do i do! i met this guy online and we really like each other. however i told my bestfriends and they were like what the hell. I have been talking to him for 7 months , we talk to webcam etc etc and we both like each other. We cant be together...

How to get negative people out of you life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I'm a really calm person but this guy has got me so mad. He is really pervy I told him to stop saying things to me because they were making me uncomfortable. He follows me around like a dog and carry's on saying things I don't like. I tell him to ...

Should I leave, so she can find someone who will make her happier? Don't want to lose the love of my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I have been with my wife for 9 years, married for 3. I love her like no other and we have 3 boys together. About 4 months ago, we really had problems. I got so depressed and turned to trying to kill myself, but by the grace of god and my loving ...

He tells me he still loves me, but he still doesn't want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I met a guy 3yrs ago, and we fell in love. I have serious trust issues with men, purely based on being cheated on in previous relationships and the main reason being because in my family, all the men have cheated, and betrayed the women they wer...

Do you think he's gay, or just a man with feminine traits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I met this man over a year ago. We worked together on the same project for probably 6 months. We had quite a few conversations in which we found out we had so much in common. We continued to get to know each other and I asked him to go for a ...

She has a profile on a website designed for married people to cheat....I'm not sure if I can be with her anymore knowing she could do this

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I have just discovered (or rather the computer repairer told me) that during a period where we broke up, my girlfriend had joined a site that is there for married people to cheat on each other . She`s down as single but seeking attached or married ...

Mismatched sex drives and now she doesn't like it if I turn to porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - My girlfreind only wants sex ounce a week and never during her period but i have a very high sex drive so i want to masterbate infront of her, she used to be ok with it even give a helping hand but now she doesnt like it when i do it and hates it if ...

Did I do the right thing to break up with her? I feel bad for hurting her, but she hurt me so many times.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Hi, hope you are fine and doing well. I am really really sorry it will be very long for you to read, but please read it and give your kind advice and comments on this. i have a sad story and now am confused if i did well broke up with her in fear ...

My boyfriend says we have broken up but it's more like we are on a break!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. Me and my bf have just broken up and we are both devastated. we both still love eachother very much. There have been alot of problems, including me suffering from depression and paranoia which he really struggles with. I am on ...

We met through an online game but now things have gone bad, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - well im a 31 year old woman who has been playing this game online for almost 3 years, ive meet a lot of great people there. well ive been playing with this one guy for a lil over 2 years we have always gotten along really well . and back in may he ...

I chased a loser and lost a winner...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hi everybody I came here to vent and maybe someone can help me out. I'm lost and sad. I spent the past 4 and half years chasing after a man who come to find out had a fiancee. I found that out half way through but didn't leave him since he kept ...

I have no female friends and am lonely. I have turned to masturbation to cope!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, i am a 19yr old guy, pursuing engineering.i have this strange dis-order of social illness.I have very few friends and i want to remain in their zone only, people don't like me because of my this introvert nature. I cannot mark my prese...

My loyalty to him is in conflict with what my friends think of my actions. I'm in a panic. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - i'm in a panic, because my best friend has moved to another area, and i want to go too. i get on really well with him and this is why i'm in a panic, because a few times i've rowed with him, over silly stuff. And at the time confided in my two clos...

Boyfriend lies to me all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three years. I am 20 and he is 19. I noticed a year-a year and a half way through our relationship that he was lieing to me all the time.Just tonight i caught him in a lie that he didnt even have to lie about ...

He is definitely not giving me what I need!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

28 January 2011 (?) - My boyfriend of 6 years off and on says he loves me so much, and wants a future with me, but he lives in another state by choice (not because of his job), and i haven't seen him for 6 months-he is coming on monday to stay at one of the four houses ...

The maturity gap between us is beginning to show more and more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now, this is a long distance relationship where we get to see each other every few months, for a period of a week of so. We are both moving to the same city here in june, and hopefully see each ...

Should I enough them to break up by telling him about his Gf's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - This guy started talking to me back in march of '10. I never gave him the time of day, but gradually he started to like me. I only saw him as a friend. Then I started to realize how cool a person he is and how he's been trying to get with me for ...

I'm drowning in her love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I cant breathe!! My gf and I have been dating for 2 years now, and ever since that 2 year anniversary, she has just been drowning me in love constantly. She says she loves me almost every 20 mins on the phone and shes singing my name over and over ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm guilt tripping him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I have a little problem that is gradually getting worse...I'm 18, my boyfriend is 19 and we've been seeing each other for about three months now, I've known him four years prior. Anyways, we haven't seen each other in a couple of days d...

I think my boyfriend has an obsession with the internet? HELP?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Okay. Where to start.. I'm a mature 20 year old and I was seeing my boyfriend for 9 months until last week. After a couple months of our relationship, I found him on the internet talking to different people about our relationship, nothing too bad, ...

How Do I deal with a moody, somewhat selfish, loner, low sex drive bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - so ive written on here before.. i have mixed feelings about my relationship.. maybe its not my bf..maybe its me.. ive had alot of bad luck w/ guys and i feel ive let them walk all over me..so in this relationship, im trying to communicate mo...

Why doesn't she say I love you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4843 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - The problem i used to have is that my girl friend will hardly say i luv u at the end of our talk on phone,even when i said dat she will hardly replied. She only does dat wen she is alone and i'm not comfortable with dat. I can't imagine dat, i've ...

Will I ever stop loving my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I'm 19 now but when i was 15 i started seeing a boy, he was a year older than me but i loved him with all of my heart, he made me so happy, he constantly told me how much he loved me, that i was beautiful and special and he never wanted to lose me, ...

She wants space to explore and then come back to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Ok guys heres the deal ive been with the same girl for over six years. I love her more than anything and we have been engaged for 6 months. We got together young she was 14 and i was 17 and until recently i was the only person she had ever been ...

I'm bored but want to save the relationship

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28 January 2011 (F) - I know I'm young and naieve but I think my relation ship is serious. I've had relationships in the past where I have gotten bored so i left. I am now bored in my current relationship but my boyfriend doesn't know i feel this way. Should i tell him? ...