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writes:Hi My boyfriend and i been dating for 2 years im 6 months pregnant and ever since i got pregnant we've been fighting alot. First of all our biggest issue we have we aren't financially stable at all. I work 45 hours a week and my boyfriend doesnt make so much money i just feel like he takes advantage of me alot. Second I accuse him for cheating all the time cuz he has before with his ex girlfriend and now since im pregnant im feeling more insecure then before. So lately we havent been happy he thinks im a controling drama queen and i cant live without him i need him while im pregnant and I really love him
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): Don't accuse him of cheating without proof if u want to keep him constantly accusing him will only push him away n about his money problems try suggesting to him to perhaps look for other job/career options with better income gud luck
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reader, rouge +, writes (26 January 2011):
 Well girl i help alot of girls in your postion and i will tell you no matter how much you fight if he loves you he will be there. Second if you KNOW he is cheating then get out of the relationship, go to someone who will help you. Because if he is cheating, no matter what he says he does not love you. cheers ;)
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reader, wornoutmommy +, writes (26 January 2011):
 Ok. Breathe :)I'm in the same situation, but almost 6months along. Part of the problem is simply being hormonal, second part is that when we (women) are preggo we feel entitled to a certain level of being pampered or spoiled by our sig other. My bf works full time on o/n and I work pt days, money is terrible here too. On top of it, because we're having a girl he became upset- and went and bought a dog that we can't afford. Now he's too 'busy' playing xbox while I'm at work that he can't even let the dog outside, so I come home to dog poo on the floor. Part of the deal with me working pt was that I cleaned more at home- but he has stopped doing everything but play xbox. But now I'm finishing my last two classes for my degree and between work or school I'm only getting 4 hours of sleep, so I don't have time to clean!Our sex life has stopped, and while my bf hasn't cheated his porn usage has increased- and I understand your insecurities here. I don't have much advice, just know you're not alone here. I would stop accusing him of cheating though, because he may think that if he's going to be blamed for it, he may as well do it. Why pay for a crime not committed? We've basically completely stopped talking- trying to say anything while that damn xbox is on is ridiculous. And I've given up hope that he'll be capable of watching our daughter for the 6 hours that I'm gone for work; if he can't take 5 minutes to let the dog out, how can I trust that he can handle pulling away from his games for a baby!I hope all goes well for you, and congrats on your baby :)
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