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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend told me if I don't stop calling so much he will dump me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I kind of panicked today since my bf of an year was heavily flirting with an other girl in IM. I snooped around his computer ( i know i shouldnt have done), and found out this and panicked and tried to call him 4-5 times within 4 h...

I'm so in love with you, but I have days when I'm not sure... So he says!

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25 January 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend the other night, after I had a dream that he was all over someone else. We dated for 6 months and he was a good person. We went on trips together and we had our fights, but after we broke up in November for 24 hours, ...

Am I wrong for not calling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - hi im 28 im with my partner 7 years we have 3 beautiful children together, im a stay at home mum dont really go out with friends that often and when i do i basically get ignored 4 a day or 2 afterwards, i was out recently with few friends 4 couple ...

Should I be concerned about her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. I have been with my girlfriend for three years. We have been seperated twice and I think it's because of her "friend". I broke up with her the first time because I felt that I was a control freak and that she deserved someone better. ...

When upset, my boyfriend talks about me behind my back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has his up days and his down days. My question is though, during his rough days and we argue should it be okay for him to talk and complain about me behind my back. He did it once in front of his sister and he does it on ...

I punish people for my own shortcomings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - This might sound a little weird and could be somewhat long so please bear with me and try to understand. I'm not the most confident person on earth and i have little faith in myself. As a result i tend to spend most of my time alone as i fear tha...

My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with women's bodies.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hi I have just returned from a day out with my boyfriend of 18 months followed by yet another row. My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with women's bodies. I am slim and considered pretty and he always compliments me and what I wear. I used to have ...

My boyfriend "forgot" to get me a birthday and Christmas present!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - My BF forgot to buy me a bday gift and an Xmas gift...well he did not think it was necessary to buy me an Xmas gift (he bought gifts for his friends and family). I was SO hurt by this I did not talk to him for like 2 weeks, and then I told him how ...

Because of her problems at home, my girlfriend is distancing herself from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4844 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - I'm 15 and my gfs 14 were in the same year but were not very close recently. She's having problems at home i know because she used to tell me every thing but we had a big argumment about that. We dont spend any time together any more and she was ...

Why am I always the friend everyone confides in, but never the friend invited out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Why am I always the friend everyone confides in, but never the friend invited to do things socially with? I am the married mother of three teens. I have always been the one to gladly pick up others' kids from school and take them home or to a tea...

Why do boys do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Right, please read!, i dont know what to do, i really like this lad called lets say bob, and he was new to the school like i was a few months ago recently we have been close and i thought he liked me, we were going to meet this weekend but he b...

Co-worker has become distant, but claims nothing is wrong. What should I say to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I need some advice. I know I'm not being paranoid, but I had a friend who I was good friends with and I helped him with a hell of a lot. He's still working in my company but, now he has distanced himself. Something doesn't seem right. H...

Boyfriend claims he love me. So why does he sleep around?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - If my boyfriend says he loves me, then why does he engage in casual sex with others? ...

Should we tell our good friend that we saw her new husband on an online dating website?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I am in a group of 8 women that travel and play a sport together. We have known each other a very long time and are good friends. One of my friends divorced her husband of 25 years to be with another man. This man had been single ...

My ex is trying to sabotage my new relationship & my new bf is backing off. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I have found a new man... all is going great. We went on holiday together and got on well. I posted some pics up of our vacation as I was so happy. Anyway, my ex bf is still on my page, which I totally forgot about. He is now trying to get me back ...

Boyfriend became pessimistic when he started having health problems. How can I help him become positive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 months. He cares and loves me so much that he even talked about marriage. The problem is that he is moody and pessimistic. Mostly, after he started have health problems. He tells me he i...

Relationship in limbo! What can I do to kindly jolt him into taking action?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - How does one get out of relationship limbo? Started out as a fairytale then turned ugly. He told me he doesn't want a committed relationship, so I showed him the door. Things are just complicated though as we move in the same circle of friends and I ...

Should I see what transpires with my ex, or should I break contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Long story short, I got dumped by my girlfriend of two years in September because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there ...

Job offer, unhappy girlfriend and tough decisions - help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a guy in university and I have a serious concern causing stress in my relationship for the last couple weeks or so. I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year, and we love each other and want to marry each other (or so I thought). ...

Is there any hope? I'm in love with a married foreign woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hi. I love a foreign woman who's only reason for being in America is that she is married. She's explained numerous times that its a casual marriage, and that he has his own lover(s) *I do not ask that many questions on the subject*. I know, though, ...

My boyfriend is having an affair, and I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together over a year now but lately our relationship is falling apart as we have begain to row about 3 months ago he told me he could meet up for a while as wanted to sort our his career etc but i later found out he has ...

Should I stop my boyfriend from travelling alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure if anyone can help as this feels like a complex situation but i'm so lost with it i wanted to put it out there to see if anyone can advise! I'v been with my partner for just over 3 years and I feel in my heart he is the one, when...

Does this guy really care about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - i´ve been seeing this guy for 7months right.. i fell for him pretty bad.. it wasnt meant to be serious in the beginning.. cause well we both had our plans for our lives.. he´s meant to go away for about 1year.. 1.5years.. that seems to be the "mai...

Married to a good guy but still wants me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - heeey....i knew a woman...loved her...met a lot....then i knew that she was married...she told me... we are in the same age....she is married for 6 months....her husband works abroad...only come home twice a year...i believe that she loves me...i ...

Should I just end it and let him go while it's not too late? Or give it a shot while doubting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I am 26 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We are colleagues and we see each other almost 24/7. I think this is why we argue so much about little things. We constantly stay at home because we are so tired from work ...

Why am I so down on myself about these things? Is it the Cannabis that is making me paranoid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Morning to you all I need some objective advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. I love him very much. We do "clash" sometimes because we both hold strong opinions on things and are equally quick tempered. Well, here's the ot...

I dumped him for another man but I am so hurt he slept with another girl while we were apart! How do I get over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - so... not long ago i had a boyfriend(let's call him alex). we had been together for like 1 year and 10 months. things started to get really routinaire and i asked him for a break. he said yes but then i met this other guy (daniel) and we started ...

Is there still a chance for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - He says he loves me but is not in love with me anymore - i think though he may be suffering from depression. we've been together 8 years and have lived together for 3. he went 2 weeks ago saying he had a lot going on and needed a break. he said ...

Boyfriend says he cant promise he will ever love me, is there reason to stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - So here's my story. I am in the active duty military at my first duty station, a week after getting here I start hooking up with this really cute guy that I developed a crush for in my platoon. Well the hooking up became into something more and we ...

My girlfriend returned a gift I bought!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - I have been dating my GF for four years now and this year is our fifth year. The problem is since 2008 we started a long distance relationship because we both went to different universities, and now I am working while studying at the same time I ...

My boyfriend didnt get my anything for Christmas, do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - My Boyfriend of one year previously best friends for two years, didn't get me anything for christmas last year and I'm a little confused if i should be upset or not. I've splurged a little too much on him since it was our first christmas and that ...

Obsessed with the past.......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - I found out my girlfriend flashed a guy, aka her best friend over skype a few days before we got together, after he flashed her and begged her to flash him. 3 months later, it's still popping into my head randomly and causing me to have emotional ...

After being with him my self esteem has fallen to an all time low!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4846 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years and he tells me he loves me but sometimes it's hard for me to really believe him. He rarely ever compliments me, but he will always be the first to point out a "hot" girl at the club or bar. ...

Am I crazy? Or is she?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hey there Dear Cupid, im here for my third and probably final time. This issue is about me and my mental state more and my worry, I also need your intelligent thoughts on whats going on. As of two months ago my girlfriend and I broke up. Her pa...

Am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - So me and my ex dated for 14 months. It ended because he felt as if he was hurting me and not being there for me. The night we broke up we literally sat in my room for like six hours going back in forth. He wanted to take a break and be friends ...

He wants his ex wife to sleep over at our house so she can play a more active role in the children's lives!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - right now I'm feeling extremely sad. i need to know how to cope with this situation that i am in. i am living with my partner who is still married. he has 3 kids from previous relationship and we have 3 of our own. the older three are teens and the ...

Girlfriend drifting away? Or am I too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm in a relationship with this girl that I like and I am facing quite a few problems. We are both students in graduate school. Firstly in a social setting, she tends to ignore me and just chat with others. She doesnt look at ...

My partner is posessive and doesn't allow me to have friends

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - my partner is very possesive and wont allow me any friends. i dont work and am basically a recluse as im not allowed out. please could someone advice me on how i can make friends on line without my partner knowing. i feel i need company a...

My boyfriend is constantly texting other girls and flirting with them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I hate having this feeling that my boyfriend is always.. 24/7 texting girls. i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now but me and him have known each other for over 4 years and have had an on and off relationship. he is much of a private ...

He had a way out but didn't end it and I'm really confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I am so confused about a relatonship that I recently got into. I met a guy on an online dating site in September. I was really taken with him he swept me off my feet and was so romantic we spent about three days a week together and we start...

Sex hungry boyfriend has got me wondering if I want to marry him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hi, i been seeing a guy in the military for a few months an by saying a few i mean 7 so its still new.. at first we where close.. like couldn't go a day with out talking to him ... well he just got orders to germany about 2 months ago.. an i was ...

My fiancee doesn't want to make love any more and its tearing me apart.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - I have been with my Fiancee for 2 years and love her with all my heart but it seems like she just doesnt wanna sleep with me anymore. Before we moved in together the passion was strong and chemistry couldnt be contained. we used to make love at ...

Selfish boyfriend - porn and sex all for him and not for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for about 7 months. I love him and want to do anything to make us work, but I feel like he's more interested in porn than me. We have sex once a week, if that, and usually I have to ask for it to get it. ...

I just want to stay friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - my close friend is ver sexy and I think that she is trying to seducing me . she has big boobs and when we are alone (studying...) she always try to show me her boobs by bending over without reasons or wearing low cut clothes(sometimes I see her ...