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female
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36-40,
*oxieLoxie
writes:Why is he ignoring me?? We have been together for nine months and we get on very well and I love him lots and Im sure he loves me lots too!! well he says he does!! The last few weeks he has been dropping me for his friends and not really been seeing me so I got so angry becasue he said he forgot that I just told him to leave me alone as I was sick of being dropped and him forgetting, he forgets everything he doesnt even know when my birthday is!! But Ive sent him a few texts and he has just totally ignored all of them and turned his phone off do you think he wants to break up??
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (26 January 2011):
 hi
i'm sorry to say, yes it does sound as if he wants to break up. if he wanted this relationship to continue he wouldn't chance treating you like this, in case it made you break up with him! love is just a word, its the best one in the world when its said truthfully, but sadly this ain't always the case. or then people can really *think* they love someone, but its not real, true, know-you-inside-out-and-LOVE-it-all-(even the bad bits)-love.
or he may have loved you but something has made him stop. look at your own behaviour - honestly- do you feel as if there is anything you should have done differently?
nobody knows why he is treating you like this but him, and he is unwilling to even discuss it with you! do your best to move on, you WILL get over this. keep busy, see your friends, plan fun things with them for the future, a guy who switches his phone off to avoid speaking to you is gutless and pig ignorant, not worth your time
xx
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reader, leylaness +, writes (26 January 2011):
 Have you spoken to your boyfriend?? He probably does love you but feels to young to be in a serious relationship and if thats te case he needs to tell you now so that he is not leading you which is very unfair on you!! Tell him you think your relationship has hit a few problems and you want to get them out in the open. If he doesn’t want to talk to you or doesn’t change then its best to find someone who wants to treat you the way you want to be treated you deserve so much better then being ignored and sent on a wild goose chase. My advice is talk to him it is the only way your going to find out what’s going through his mind, dont be scared of his reply your going to hear some time so its better sooner than later, it will hurt far less if its bad newsGood luck xxx
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