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Archived questions from: 29 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is this relationship doomed or do-able..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hi all This may be a long read, but here goes= I met A in 2007, when I was out with my BF at the time. A told me he was smitten with me the moment he saw me, asked me to dance, talked to me, etc. I told him I have a BF. He kept persisting until...

My boyfriend preferred watching a movie with his best friend rather than with me....and I had arranged a day off just for the two of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Ok, here goes :) I arranged to get a day off from work so that my boyfriend and I could watch a film that he had bought, and just spend a nice quiet night together... But I just found out that he watched it with his best friend instead. I'm furio...

My boyfriend has become distant and is being an ass!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is being distant. I am 20 and he is 21. We have been together for almost 2 years now. He use to always be a gentleman, caring, fun, loving etc. However, recently he has become a complete ass to me finding the simplest things to complain ...

Does this make me a sick person? I don't want to hurt him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I've been talking to this boy online for a few months now, we're both 20. When we met I was getting over my ex, so he was kind of like a rebound. He gave me comfort and made me happy from a distance, which is what I needed. Eventually I told this ...

Can one child destroy a whole family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I have a very tragic life. My whole family i destroyed. My children, are all troubled, and I have other serious problems as well. Some chronic bad luck. The family picture is terrible... There is drug addiction, Death from drugs, crime and sham...

I want them both but they both want me to get rid of the other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I need help on choosing between two guys. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 21 and lives a state away. We met over the summer and had an instant connection. Over Thanksgiving break he came to visit me, and we had sex six times. He even gave me a $500 ...

Three year relationship - is it going anywhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Known my partner for over four years, been seeing him for over 3. I'm in my mid twenties, and he's in his early thirties. When we first got together we had been very very close friends. It was very intense, and we talked about our feelings and how ...

Best friend, who's in a long term relationship, declares his love for my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Dear all, I have been with my girlfriend for over a year, and we have a strong relationship. Last night, however, she revealed to me that one of my supposed closest friends told her that he was in love with her, and that I was a bastard who wasn...

Girlfriend lied to me about her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - What should i do....my girlfriend lied to me about her x not being at her bday party?....lets call the girl b and the k....b was having a surprice party that her mom was throwing her and the mom had happen to invite her x....so after the party she ...

I love her but my brain wont let me stop thinking about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - I was wifes first kiss her one and only love but I broke her heart. She later went and had sex with another man for a minute and told him to stop because she knew it was wrong and it didnt feel right because she still loved me. The man did not ...

I feel like I have to do everything for him, for us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We are'first loves'. We've been living together for about a year, and I'm getting to the point where I don't know if I want to stay with him, but if I think about leaving him, the ...

What's it like moving school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - What's it like moving school? Like is it hard to fit in cause everybody has already got their friends. I'm having alot of problems at my school atm cause this rumour is going round bout me doing stuff with this guy and everybody thinks its true ...

My boyfriend's ex-wife and son are constantly interfering!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Well here goes I guess. The guy I am seeing is perfect for me. I know he feels the same about me. So our problem is his 16 year old son and his ex. She has sent me facebook messages saying she wishes us the best, but then argues about me all the ...

I can't think straight when it comes to him but I don't think this is the way things should be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hi I am with my bf for an year. At first he was very nice, considerate and we talk almost daily in phone. For the past few months i am seeing some changes in him, like 1. He often says i am stupid, idoitic, crazy, psycho.. 2. He never apo...

Time of the month she turns into someone else.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

29 January 2011 (?) - Hey everybody, Really need your help so here goes. Thanks in advance. I've been dating this girl for a couple of months now and everything was going well up until a week ago. It's the time of the month and I don't want to sound like just a ...

I want my boyfriend to hit me.. Is this normal?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2627 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - For some reason, I have a strong desire to be in an abusive relationship with a guy. I want to be hit, thrown to the ground, or pushed into a wall. I'm not sure if this is normal or not though. My boyfriend seems like the kind of guy who may do ...

Would I be crazy to take my ex back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (?) - Would I be crazy to take an ex back? It was a LDR, he broke up with me (amicably) a few weeks back and I guessed he was getting cold feet, scared of commitment or whatever as I was looking to re-locate in the next few months to be closer to him. ...

I'm always there for him and I'm a good mother to his kids...then why doesn't he trust me and love me back the way I do for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - hi i am an OFW, im in a long distance relationship, he is 10 years older than me, we are together for 7 years, and we have 2 kids. i love my partner a lot as if i cant see my future without him, though we are not married yet because of some ...

Is my wife still sexually attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 13 years, and I love her with all of my heart. I'm more attracked to her now than when we first got married. However, I don't think that she's all that attracked to me anymore. Our sex life sucks. I want it al...

Our four year relationship has stagnated. Could it be reinvigorated? And how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - We are in our early twenties. We have been dating nearly four years (having met in high school). Things were passionate but have died down steadily. I truly love her personality (at least the positive part of it). But there are things that have been...

I messed around with two women...now I want the second one who loved me but I ended up hurting...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Before anyone starts throwing rocks at me pls hold off and hear me out. I fell in love with 2 different women (woman A and woman B). I fell in love with woman A first and boy did I fall hard. The complication was she wanted an open relations...

Am I wrong to be angry with him for making these money decisions without me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - am i wrong here? i have been with my boyfriend on and off for a year and half. he was getting a lump sum of money and we were going to get married sometime this year but i think thats not going to happen...anyways he got the money early today and we ...

I think my boyfriend could be gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Thank you for reading this. I have never used the Internet for answers, I am very confused. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and we love each other undoubtedly. Lately though I have been questioning his sexuality. There are a few ...

Girlfriend like my best friend, keeps in touch with him more. Am I second prize to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - ok, one of my best friends knew my new girlfriend before me and they liked eachother but didnt get together when she asked him out he already had a girlfriend but he offered to break it off to be with HER!!! then she meets me and says she li...