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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

I am scared I lost my chance with him, and scared to lose my best friend too! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I need advice about this guy i still really really like.We have gone out off and on 3 or 4 times. He has dated my friend first but i ask permission to date him him she said yes, so we went out and now he has went out with 5 of my most best friends ...

Is there any way to make him pay maintenance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - hi can anyone give me advice 25 yr ago i had an affair which i became pregnant my daughter is now 25 years old out of the blue after 25 years he wanted a parternity test which was positive (which i knew it would be) but since then he has not ...

My boyfriend calls my best friend names when I am around. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and my best mate(boy) are also best mates. However, my best mate feels like my boyfriend doesn't like him because of the way he acts in front of me because my boy friend calls him names. What should I do?? ...

My boyfriend has anger issues, but I don't want him to leave. Will he ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really dont know what to do anymore! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 6 month old son. He works nights and I look after our son. He gets really naggy over the slightest thing and will shout, swear, and punch the walls....

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

Can't figure this guy out! What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I met this guy back in November and we were hanging out a few times a week, having a great time, and it lead to me sleeping over when I would see him. Every since I met him I questioned if he was a player.... his cell always being off when I am ...

My boyfriend's mother hates me and refuses to see our child because I told her he was bisexual! How can I clear the air?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend 4 years, (were 18) and we have a 14 month old daughter together. The problem is that his mother hates me because I once told her my boyfriend was bisexual (which is true). He cheated on me 3 times wi...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

Not 100% happy in 2 year long distance relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Okay, well I am 17 (yeah kind of young, I know right...) and I am in a long-distance relationship. He lives in a place all the way across my country. I really want to be with him but it's hard. We have been together for 2 years. We are both too...

Is he cheating? And what should I do about our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - What should I do? Is he cheating? I love him so much:( I told my boyfriend to take a break from our relationship because I feel that he doesn't like the fact that we are always on the phone or texting. So yes I told him to take a break and he said...

We both have partners, but we're in love! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My situation is awkward! I have been close friends with a guy in another country for a couple of years. We get on great together, have so much in common, and have met a few times in real life, which were fantastic. The problem is he has a partner ...

I don't like the person my boyfriend has become!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 18 months now, im 27 and he is 33, we both divorced, we met at the beach and we had a lot of fun at the beginning, he use to take me on dates, dining out all around town and I would sleep at his house every single ...

I'm not feeling validated in this relationship and she can't fully commit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Alright, this is going to be slightly long, but bear with me for a moment. I started dating this girl when I was 19. I've always had a lot of trust issues, so opening up to people wasn't something I was good at. For about 6 months things were goin...

How can I be enough for him when he is answering ads and meeting people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So, I have a bit of "situation" right now with my boyfriend and I have never had a problem like this in my life before. I am not one to get other people involved in my relationship issues but I cannot even tell my family or friends what is ...

We don't have enough time for each other and he blames me!

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30 January 2011 (F) - My partner is madly in love with me and he knows i love him but when things r busy at home we dont get time togather then he blames me for this and goes funny on me even he day befor was home day .g dont even have do any thing to set him like this. ...

Night of drinking and harsh words have really strained my relationship with friends. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Want to try and keep this as short as I can, so will gloss over some of the details. A few months ago my boyfriend came out for drinks for a friend's engagement and at the end of the evening he was chatting to one of her friends and she said som...

I want to have a better relationship with my parents

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hello, last August me and my mum had a really big argument and I moved in with my dad. I won't go into all the details of the argument but I will briefly describe it. I didn't have a job and got her a cheap box of chocolates for her anniversary. I ...

Should I take a risk and talk to my ex, or wait to see what happens when I visit his sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - It's been 4 months since my ex and I broke up....the same week we broke up he slept with someone, but didn't tell me... I figured it out! We didnt talk for a month then he got in contact, admitting what he had done and saying how he regretted ...

Should I propose to her, or am I making a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I've known and have been sleeping with my girlfriend for 2 years besides a several month period where she changed her number and took me out of her life. Here's the deal and I am trying to get to the bottom of this and it isn't easy...we have h...

Worried about leaving my kids with their father who is an alcoholic. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My existence here in this country depends on my ex. I don't know why I say he is my ex as we still live together. He was supposed to move out once he had the money. Since I've been working (3 months) I've been paying all the bills myself so he can ...

Cheated on my boyfriend and left him for another. 1 yr later I can't stop dreaming about him!

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30 January 2011 (F) - Okay so bear with me please it's a really long one. So me and this guy, he was my high school sweetheart. We liked each other for years then dated for about 2 years or more. I cheated on him with another guy and thought I was falling for the other ...

I want to break up my friendship because he's rude, but how do I tell him and break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who's 16 and I am 15. He loves me and i love him too, but am not yet ready for a relationship. Sometimes when we talk he's rude, sometimes he's caring. Anytime i tell him he's rude, he says, 'dats d way he is'. I hate rude ...

I'm worried my husband will cheat on his business trip. How can I learn to trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip, and once he returned he confessed to me and said he is guity. However, I cannot come to terms with this yet. It's been 2 years, he has been avoiding going to business trips, but now he c...

Do I have to keep the lines of communication open if a man is autistic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Do I have to keep the lines of communication open if a man is autistic? Im involved with a younger male artist who is prone to depression and has been in abusive relationship. I had known him socially for a few months and after propsitioning me (I ...

What can I do when my boyfriend believes I secretly want his older brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Me and My Boyfriend have been dating for 10 months and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I love him so much and I know it's stupid but I feel like he's the one. The only problem is he is insecure. He doesn't feel like he is good ...

What is my ex BF playing at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Dear all, Please help!!I split up with my BF and we did not see each other for three months. Anyway,we did see each other last week and he was very lovng towards me. He works nights now, and said' I can;t see yu in the evenings, but can see you ...

My boyfriend constantly thinks I'm cheating and there is someone else!

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30 January 2011 (F) - I'm going out with my bestfriend's exboyfriend. i know that's bad enough. we've been casually having something for nearly a year but he never wanted to make it official. About a month before he asks me to be his girlfriend i had something with ...

About my LDR I don't know what to do any more.

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30 January 2011 (M) - Well I meet this girl about 2yrs ago online web cam site. One nite I gave her my phone number in we hit it off good. She starting calling me every day like we were ment to be. So we hit it off good the first couple of months. She has ...

Is sex enough to keep them together?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy friend so much unfortunately he always denying and playing my feeling. Now he totally cut me off and date one of my friend(use to be really close friend) and she was from Germany.He did this obviously he want to prove his loyal and ...

Are my friends trying to break me and my boyfriend up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - my friends dont like my boyfriend but im crazy about him. i mean yeah were in different schools and they see him more but what if what they are saying is true. I just dont want to believe it? or what if they are trying to get me and my boyfriend ...

Distant Boyfriend

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30 January 2011 (F) - I am 29 and my boyfriend is 30. We have been together for 2 years. We have been fighting a lot lately about anything and have both decided that we want to work on things. However, he has not been putting in the effort. I havent seen him in over a ...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

I'm 17 and have a curfew of a 9 year old. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - ok so i'm 17 years old. i live with my stepdad and stepsister. when my mom died 3 years ago i had to move back in with them. my stepdad never lets me do anything. go see friends, hang out, NOTHING. It's been this way since i moved back in. tonight i ...

He cheated, I got pregnant, stayed for the children, and now I want out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had a four year affair early in our marriage. By the time I had enough confidence in myself to leave him I found out I was pregnant. 15 years later, I no longer want to stay married. His family stated that I don't have the right to leave ...