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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm out of his league...Should I care what others think?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I just need to make sure I'm thinking clearly. I'm engaged to a wonderful man who treats me like a princess. He loves me and I love him. Our sex life is good. He's financially stable, (6 figure job, house in the right neighborhood, car, he has no ...

My boyfriend of Three years cheated then left. Why am I being treated like this? It feels punishing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and then left me for his 1 month affair girl. He was perfect to me and i honestly don't know why he has changed this dramatically. I was never formally introduced but i heard that the mistres is 7 years younger ...

Situation with texting, FB and the guy I used to sleep with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I'm just looking for a second opinion. A couple of months ago, I slept with this guy a few times. We texted, then i made the tremendous mistake of asking his friend about one of his ex girlfriends. So he stopped texting me. However, each time I b...

Should I stay or move on? I can't seem to convince my gf that we could be good together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - It's been 3 weeks since my girlfriend and I broke up. The reason we broke up was because we fought too much, and our intimacy reduced, but we did have a great friendship (she was my best friend as I was to her). We did have trust and loyalty, befo...

My girl seems to be playing games with me. Why text me when she was with another guy? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I saw my girl with another guy. She saw me and said, ''hi'' to me. I ignored her. After that she sent me a text saying,''You seem cold today. Why are you so down, or is it me?'' What was the purpose of this sms? She knows I saw she was with ano...

How can I make this easier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - i am 18 so please dont say i should have waited. Me and my boyfriend, he is 18 as well, are expecting. well he is now my ex boyfriend. we broke up last night because he had said earlier that he wasn't happy. so i broke up with him. the thing is...

Even though he is my first, should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hello, SO here is the thing. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 5 months. I turned 17 yesterday and have had a very hectic few months... to get you to understand i must tell you the whole background. In November 2010 I lost all my hair...

I want us to have a child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - hi my partner and i have been together for four years . Alot of bad times in past includin him shall we say strongly persuadin me to have a termination sayin it was not the right time. We were both so skint and as i have two kids already and him a ...

Does he have a right to keep this information to himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I have a problem with my fiance he has stomach pains so he went to the hospital for treatment, i asked him what the doctor said ! he ingorned my question and kept on saying to me to take care of my health. I dont know really i feel le...

How do you try to get along with someone you hate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I really hate my sisters boyfriend. He's loud, obnoxious, thinks he's hilarious, and is a HUGE suck up to my parents and other sister. Ever since the beginning he has ignored my presence and greeted everyone in the room except me. We spend our ...

The longer we've been together the shorter our bedroom life seems to get!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost 2 years. The longer we've been together the shorter our bedroom life seems to get. When we first met we would go at it for 1-2 hours and it was amazing! But as time has gone on I've noticed ...

Guys opinions, what is going on in his head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I have been going out with this guy for almost 5 years now. I am his first serious girlfriend he says. We tried moving in together, but shortly after I moved out because he said it seemed like it was too soon for him. Even though this was not ...

Am I being too demanding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship for past 3 years and im very serious about him... he's got new'ly appointed 4 job and is quite busy these days and hardly has time 4 me.... and when i call up he doesnt have much to say to me. I think he is taking me for ...

He's calling me too much! How do I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (?) - So I met this guy through a friend and He showed some interest in me. Truthfully he's not my type of a person AT ALL. but I, for the heck of it, just casually flirted with him. I don't know, but I think he took it as a signal enough to hit on me. H...

It seems like she wants me to chase her, even though we are official!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been talking for a year and some change now, and just in September we made it official. But its like she wants me to chase her, its like she doesn't like to call or respond to my texts unless I contact her. If i don't ...

I said sorry for everything that happened in the past but she is still acting different with me.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I was in relationship with a girl since 4 years. I was kinda careless about the relationship and about her. But i loved her. So after 4 years our relationship came to an end and we broke up ! .. but after 3-4 months i started missing her and ...

We have broken up so many times because of his cheating, I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone! I am young and just want some advice from someone who won't think I'm crazy lol, I started liking this boy last year and we starting going out in March, we have been breaking up on and off becausee he cheats! ( I have the password to ...

Stuck in the middle of a love triangle: Who do I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I used to date Mr. S. We dated because we fell hard in love. Half way through the relationship he started to feel trapped and distanced himself from me. I went insane over time and couldn't handle it. I tried to talk to him about it two days before ...

I'm confused and don't know where we stand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hello all..I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for about ten months now. About a month ago, he decided he wanted us to take a step back and go with the flow, but not break-up. As a result, I heard from him a lot less, and ...

Is marriage really the next step in a relationship or is it just a childhood dream all women have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - You know i've never asked much questions in life until i became a lot older and then the questions i seemed to ask were; why on earth am i not in a stable relationship or why won't my boyfriend commit? well guess what i asked these question to the ...

Does he really need time to himself, or does he want to break up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I am 21 years old, and my boyfriend is 22. I have been in a relationship with him for a year now, and everything seemed perfect until two weeks ago. He has always treated me good, always told me he loved me and has never shown me otherwise. He...

Do I consider a threesome because I love him? Or just say no?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Right, i need someone's help to make me understand my boyfriend's mind a tad bit better.. He wants to try a 3sum, however.. i want MY boyfriend to Myself! I'm not into girls, sure they're gorgeous but not sexually. I thought we had great se...

She chose her husband over me, but still wants to talk! Why is this and how do I deal with it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1758 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I have been seeing a married woman for about 8 months. I’m a single male. She decided to stay with her hubby. I do love this gal and have for years before this started. I love talking with her. We have weekend places very close to each other. This ...

This guy runs a mile everytime I see him, what have I done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone who takes the time to read this. Im sorry it will probably be long and maybe confuss you but Ill try to keep it short and simple. Ok i go to University and I share a Maisonette with 12 people (including me) we are seperated by 2 fla...

She turned me down because of the colour of my skin, even though she is darker than me! Who is the crazy one here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - Aunty's I can't beleieve what just happened. My cousin hooked me up with a chic I'll say is "X". Okay so we kicked it on the phone for 9 months until last Saturday. She liked me and I liked her. She calls me tonight and said we should be friends ...

Will I be a big disappointment to him when I show my true colours?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hey y'all, My boyfriend is completely infatuated with me; he thinks I am the greatest girl. Recently, he told me what set me apart from his exes is that I'm not possessive. It really bothered me after hearing that. The truth is, I am quite possess...

How do I tell this girl that I am not interested without coming out of the closet? And what should I do about my crush?

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21 January 2011 (M) - I am a gay guy and my problem is that theres this really beautiful girl who goes to high school with me has been crushing on me like a real major crush. im closeted and i wish to remain closeted so she doesnt know that im gay.Well this girl is like ...

Relationship limbo: what do you think is happening, and where should I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I'm in a tricky spot at the moment. My boyfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me just before Christmas. He hadn't been himself for awhile. He told me he needed this so that he could "find himself" and that he needs to be alone to sort out his ...

I pushed my fiancee into having a boob job and now I regret it

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I'll probably get criticised for this............... I always had a thing about boob jobs on women n although my fiancee had nice size breasts and a fantastic figure i constantly went on to her about wanting her to have one. Stupid i know. ...

How to get along with your boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Iv been with my boyfriend for just over a year on christmas day! i love him more than anything but we always always argue. We argue over silly things but lately its been because his social life is taking over his life..i feel like iv been pushed ...

Does being really good in bed make you a hoe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - The man that I am seeing has constantly accused me of cheating when my loyalty towards him has only been solid and faithful. I believe it is his own insecurities that make him act the way he does at times. Whenever he goes out drinking he tell...

She helped me get a job before we broke up, and now I feel guilty for leaving!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - Me and this girl dated for just over a month(but felt like a year). She was extremely verablly and emotionally abusive, and i still dont understand why she insulted me, belittled me and harassed me so much because i treated like a queen, gave her ...

Help needed to get over an obsession with an online webcam model......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - well hello i found this site while in desperate need of some advice to help me with a trying situation that has literally drained me. i joined this adult website one of those solo girl websites at first it was just for entertainment then i started ...

What are the boundaries between a friendship and an emotional affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

21 January 2011 (?) - most people do their jobs with male or female..definatly they became friends..what are the boundries? why most people have emotional affair with co.workers...although they say they are just friends but they have love feelings for each ...

Problems with my current girlfriend and her ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - So I've been with my girlfriend for a pretty good amount of time. I am a hundred percent in love with her and I think she is perfect for me, except, she still talks to her ex, who she has dated much longer than I have. In the beginning of our ...

I cant move on even though it has been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Its been a year and a half since my ex moved in with his mistress. He didn't tell me about it, I found out about it. He knew I was pregnant when he left. He said he wanted to still have a relationship with me, I asked him flat out do you want to ...

I was supposed to be visiting him for the first time, but he doesn't seem to want to include me in his birthday celebrations!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I have been talking to a guy online for the last 18 months on a regular basis. I haven't met him as yet but was going to visit him in March this year on his birthday which I mentioned to him about a month ago. Yesterday he said I could stay with him ...

Is he playing games or does he want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - hey people, well me and my "ex boyfriend"...i say it like that because i don't i know if were together still. We've been friends for months already and when we were friends we kissed two times on different occasions. A little after he asked me out.. ...

Is the man I am dating gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I met a guy and i don't know if he is gay can you help me please. he is 43yrs old, He works as a dj, house improvement. he is very masculine body. a cop once said to me why are you with him it was kind of weird to me. he won't spend any money on me, ...

Is it a bad idea to bring a baby into the world based on the current state of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - Im in a four year + relationship and up until 2 years ago our relationship has been real rocky and we would both drink a lot. one night of intoxication has ruined me. i cheated and it haunts me even now that its out in the open. i love her so much ...

Why do I feel the need to talk about myself so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I've been a single child and all my family surrounded me with love. But for about a year now, I have self-esteem issues, I'm insecure and I feel unworthy of their love. Believe me, I'd love to know why, but I simply can't find its roots. I don't ...

He could not trust me so I have changed and tried my best to show him this, but now I am the one struggling to trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hi, First off many thanks to all of you that take the time and offer me your advice, I cannot thank you enough. I am having a lot of problems with my 9 mo. boyfriend, there are a lot of issues involved but I have never been more confused in...

My parents disagree with our relationship because of his skin colour, how can I get them to accept this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Im 19 going on 20, Im a white female dating a black guy and my mom and stepdad dont agree with this. I started dating this guy throughout high school and now we are getting serious and talking about our future together. My mom and stepdad say they ...

I really like two different guys, and don't know who to choose! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Help me!!! I really like two different guys. the first one is my boyfriend of four months and the second one is becoming a closer and closer friend. I like them both so much, and they both have good qualities. My Boyfriend has taken the time t...

She wants to take a break because her dad does not like me, will she ever come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - well heres the details of what my problem is, i was with this girl whom i am fucking crazy about. she says she realy likes me, we was together for about 6 to 8 months but her dad hates me we had always had to sneak around to be together. finaly we ...

I loaned a friend $1,000.00 and she still hasn't returned it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I have a money/friend problem. Come this February it will have been a year that I lent a friend almost $1000. She was really stuck, she was in another country and had to get out before the visa she was on expired. She had overstayed a vis...

I told my Boyfriend the truth about me being abused as a child,,,, and now things arent the same,,,,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hi, Im in a serious relationship with a wonderful partner who is very understanding and I love him very much. Recently though it seems our relationship was shaken and I am finding it very hard to deal with it. I was abused by my father as a...

He lies about all the girls on myspace

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Well heres the problemm..ive been withh my boyfriendd for two months now, and well its not so great but we tend to fix the problems...he knows im a jealous girlfriend but ge doesnt really care..he lies to me about the girls on his myspace and ...

My family hates me and calls me a daughter of the devil

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21 January 2011 (F) - My family hates me and i don't know what to do. My mother has ever said anything nice about me and that sounds like a lie but she said to my face that i am selfish lazy and wicked and that there was nothing good about me. My siblings don't like me ( ...