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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My fiance is keeps changing his mind on wanting a baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

8 January 2011 (F - Hi I am 18 years old and been with my fiancé for nearly 2 years everything was great. I have always wanted kids as u come from a very big family. In april 2010 we had spoke about having a baby and he agreed to doing so. So the following weekend i ...

$300 a week isn't going to support me and my baby!

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8 January 2011 (F - Hello everyone I am due in may 2011 and my boyfriend has a full time job working as a porter at a car dealership and only brings in 300.00 a week he says when the baby comes he wants to change to full time and go to school full time. I'm worri...

She says she loves me and no one will ever compare but, I can't help but think what she has already had!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

8 January 2011 (M - I am really really struggling with insecurity given the amount of guys my girlfirend has slept with and in particular the amount of them that she has admitted had large manhoods - 8-9inc by her reckoning...She was forced into sex work for a year or ...

He's not respecting me, but he says I'm not respecting him?

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8 January 2011 (F - my boyfriend has recently been saying things that i dont really agree with and they've been upsetting me quite a bit. Every friday i go to his house after school, but on fridays he has rugby training until 4, so like a usual girlfriend i go up to ...

Am I just email entertainment for this leo male?

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8 January 2011 (F - Need help with mature leo guy! Been emailing this particular leo guy for nearly 6 weeks now, was introduced through a mutual friend, we live in different counties but hope to meet up in a few months. Fairly regular chatting, mild flirting, i ask ...

All this has happened in a few weeks? Should I let it slide?

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8 January 2011 (F - So, i was talking to this guy for a month. Meaning we both liked each other, but had yett to commit exclusively. And then right before he was going to ask me out a girl asked me on facebook if i was also seeing him and claimed that she had kissed ...

Girlfriend did not tell she married for convenience!

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8 January 2011 (? - Hallo, i have been seeing my girlfriend for 1 year now. We met on an Internet dating website. I am in my mid thirties and she is in her early twenties, so there's a bit of age difference between us. I must say i am a person who does not find it easy ...

Should I move in with my married lover or will it not be accepted?

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8 January 2011 (F - Hello all. I hope you're enjoying the new year. Well, I'm in a quandary. Just over a year ago I began seeing a work colleague. There was an obvious attraction between us for about six months before we kissed. Naively, I thought that we could ma...

Boyfriend Isn't Sure He Wants to Spend the Rest of his Life with Me

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8 January 2011 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together two years, and are both 23. The subject of marriage has come up, and he has said that he plans on marrying me someday, and I agreed with him. We've had talks about growing old together, and once, I brought ...

Is it hard for a girl to end a unhealthy relationship?

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8 January 2011 (M - Especially when it's a long term relationship of 5 years. Went through many break ups with bf but patched back. Bf is very possessive and sometimes emotionally abusive. Once, bf slapped her. She went through so much of emotional hurt with bf. Keeps ...

My friend and crush is ignoring me after months of flirting....?

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8 January 2011 (F - There is a friend of mine that i really like. He isn't what i usually go for but i ended up falling for him. We talk all the time about anything and everything but whenever he looks at me (he normally stares at my mouth? what does that mean?), and ...

Did I overreact by dumping him or was it the right thing?

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8 January 2011 (F - Hey everyone.. I am a 19 yrs. Old girl and i have a bf 21 yrs. Old. It's been 2 years with him in a relationship. He used to be very loving and caring earlier now everything has changed. I had a fight with him just nw and i broke up with him. I d...

I have fallen out of love with my wife

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8 January 2011 (M - Hi. I really need some help.I've been married for 3 years now but have been with my wife for almost 9 years.we Were high school sweethearts not so much anymore. we have a 6 year old daughter That we had when I was 19 and a 4 month old.we fight alot ...

I thought I was moving on until I saw the pictures of him

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8 January 2011 (F - Update and a new question(s): If you've read my last 2 pleas for help and advice, then you already know I'm recently out of a 3 year relationship. Since he told me about his cheating in November, I've gone through an emotional roller coaster t...

I've moved to a new school and have nothing is going right!

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8 January 2011 (F - Please listen. I really need advice i have nobody. :( Hello :) i dont have many people to talk to, so sadly i have to resort to the internet. :( I hope you can help me and give me advice on what to do. :) Heres my story. i recently moved here and i...

I want more from him than he can give me right now

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8 January 2011 (F - I'm hoping someone can help me. Here's my story. I'm seeing a man who lives over an hour from me and is going through a divorce. He has not moved out yet, however. He is still living with his wife/to be ex and kids while saving money to set-up ...

My husband only cares about money. I still love him but I Don't know what to do

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8 January 2011 (F - i still love my husbnd to the core but all he cares about is money. he does not care for me nor respect me. he insults me and demeans me i do all the chores for him but am totally not appreciated. we have a baby, he plays with baby, ignores ...

I still love her, but she's sending mixed signals. How do I win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

8 January 2011 (M - It's almost two weeks since we broke up. I was very angry at her, we were going through a rough patch. She claims I broke up with her, while she had made it clear that she wanted to be single. As part of my move on strategy, I removed her as my ...

No reply to a love note?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

8 January 2011 (F - What do you do when you send someone a message saying you are inlove with them. And they don't even reply? And its not some random person. It's the father of your child?...

Trying to work things out with my husband but his daughters think of me as a drill Sergent!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

8 January 2011 (F - My Husband and I have been seperated for three months. We both have children, and unfortuately his kids have never really gotten along with me. the girls have always lived with their mom, who has always been very lient with them. They have been ...

I'm getting absolutely sick of my girlfriend and I feel guilty for it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

8 January 2011 (M - Hey guys. I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend; we see each other about once a month or once every two months and talk online and on the phone every.single.night. This was FINE at first, when everything was still fresh, you know? ...

How long is long enough to expect commitment when you are sleeping with a guy??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

8 January 2011 (F - I began dating this guy about 2.5 months ago. I had just gotten out of a short term relationship, and before that had a baby and was in a long term before that. He had just gotten out of a divorce a year ago, and the night we first "hooked up...

He has been my boyfriend for two months, and is now trying to get me pregnant!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

8 January 2011 (F - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now and he started talkinq bout having a baby with me. The thing is im 16 and he is 18. I told him i'm not ready to have a baby that's not in my life plan to be pregnant at 16. even ...

The princess and two toads

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8 January 2011 (F - i have a big problem here goes i have been seein someone for a year and a half it has been a hard road cheating lying leaving hitting argueing every day but i am so in love with him and don't understand it i feel like i would die if i couldn't have ...

I'm having anxiety problems about moving in with my soon to be husband

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8 January 2011 (F - Is it just me or is this normal....I've been having anxiety problems about moving in with my soon to be husband. I'm not moving in yet, but on the day we get married after the honeymoon, I'll be moving in with him and living with him "from here on ...

With a baby on the way, my relationship with my BF is headed downhill

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8 January 2011 (F - I have a boyfriend for one year and We knew eachother for 6 years. We have a baby girl on the way we were doing fine until he moved in with me and e started fighting it was a never ending battle. I dont know what I should do he calls me names s...

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