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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I know he likes his privacy but now he doesn't want me coming around to his house...???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I'm so in love with my boyfriend of four years, he's perfect for me. The only thing is he's a very private person and I'm very open and honest so I just don't understand his need for secrecy, when we love each other. It's got to a ridiculo...

Why is she ignoring me... is she taking me for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hello, sorry this might be long but i need help!! i am in a relationship with my lesbian girlfriend and we are very happy together. My best friend is also a lesbian and is in a relationship with lets call her lisa, well when i first met lisa about 2 ...

Am I just liking this guy because its an attention boost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Things with my bf are a bit up and down at moment and I have met a guy at work who is genuinely interested in me. He asked me out on a date and I obviously rejected due to my bf. But now I can't stop thinking about him. I am trying to convince ...

His brother tried it on with me and I also think my bf is cheating on me. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I been going out for almost a year....The thing is he used to be a player and so did i so we both have trust issues...Anyway The other day we got into a argument and he left me at his house with his brother. I was pissed and ...

She says I'm pushing her further away and making her hate me. what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - hey there peeps, im having a really hard time right now in my relationship or the allusion of what used to be. She found some conversations i had with an ex and flipped out on me...i can completly understand that. I have never cheated in my entire ...

Is he still faking or is he desperate? Or do you think I've surmised his real reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Well, I'm 15 and gay, and probably full of overused cliché, but I was with a guy for 9ish months, then he broke it with me. Obviously I was distraught, considering he was the first person I'd had feelings for, first person I'd ever been with, and a ...

German boyfriend insulting me or just joking around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I have a German boyfriend, we have been together long distance for five months now (I am American). He is a 28 year old PhD student in Physics, smart, organized, and nerdy. He seems quite considerate usually and loving, but sometimes he says some ...

My boyfriend is disinterested in sex, maybe porn is the root of the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex as often as we used to. We used to have sex maybe 3-4 times a week. Now... sometimes it's about twice a month. He always says that he just doesn't feel like it or the "chase" isn't there anymore because I'm ...

I am not an ogler. I am a red blooded man who appreciates beauty, but only wants my partner!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I am totally in love with my girlfriend of two years and we are both 35. The only problem is that when we go out she watches me like a hawk and if she sees me looking an attractive woman then she has a go at me. If a scantily dressed attractive ...

My girlfriend got an anonymous tip that I was cheating! But I'm not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has started recieving emails, texts and even phone calls from someone saying I've been cheating on her. When I haven't. I'd rather die than do anything to hurt her. But she doesn't know what to believe as she's been through this before ...

My boyfriend never buys me anything or tells me those 3 words!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I would just like some opinions on mine and my boyfriends relationship, sorry if this is long and I'm rambling i just wanna make sure I say everything I need to say. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. We both love each other, but ...

Should I talk to my boyfriend about his taking advantage of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hey Everyone. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now. I'm generally not a long term relationship type fo person, but with him, it's been different. But recently, i just feel like he's taking me for granted. like i'm only there w...

My husband treats his ex-wife better than he treats me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3104 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I am newly married but am frustrated as my husband still pays everything for his ex-wife even though he is not legally obligated to do so. His legal resposiblity at this point is child support and alimony (which is supposed to end in a few more ...

Should I tell my wife I cheated on her with over 30 prostitutes?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I'm 35, my wife 36, we have 2 kids, married for 7 years. Before our kids born we have really great relationship and have sex every day. Sine she got pregnant the first kid her interest for sex declined sharply. No matter what I tried the most we can ...

Please help me out of this mess!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - So ive been going out with a guy i met a few months back, we met for about a month and decided to start our relationship and things were going okay. Hes everything i could want in a guy and i was and still am absolutely smitten! I honestly fell for ...

My ex girlfriend has a new man, how do I win her back?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I am in a situation was with my girlfriend for 13yrs, we had no kids as i have a low count but she had a son from her first marriage, we never married it wasnt really dicussed, but we got on regardless...life was good but ...... she was always ...

He's turned cold and distant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend 9 months now, and I when we first got together things were more than perfect, i actually thought id found my soul mate! He made me feel like a Queen and our sex life was brilliant!! He even started talking about kids and ...

I'm dating 3 men, 2 who love me and 1 who I can see falling for me! I cant handle this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I have been speaking to my ex on the terms of possibly one day working things out if he can fulfil my needs. I have been very open and honest with him about my dating other men until I find what it is that I'm looking for even if it isn't him. He ...

How can I stop worrying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about the past 7 weeks or so, and I really like him. We're exclusive but not official,but if he was to ask me out, I'd say yes in a heartbeat... but that's besides the point. Anyway, the thing is before I met him I had ...

I feel like I was played in the worst possible way!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hey aunts. Little help will be appreciated. I've been going through a rough patch lately. So there is this guy, used to be my closest friend for a long time then, over a year ago his behavior started to change. To cut a long sory short he spent an ...

To trust or not to trust, that is the question. . .

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Well hello! I've been with the love of my life for 9 months roughly 10. Our jobs are weird for the schedules are as abstract as our relationship. I see her only on Saturday's and Sunday's sometimes Friday nights. The issue is not that I don't ge...

Recently engaged,but fighting more then ever. Is this all a mistake?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 3 years. He just got a house for us and then recently proposed to me. Of course I said yes, because I love him so much and can't imagine life without him...the only thing is we fight a lot. After the proposal I ...

Skeptical about my boyfriend's faithfulness after finding him talking to another girl behind my back......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

19 January 2011 (?) - j, 26, and i, 21, have been dating for over a year (off and on). what has caused us issues are the following: working together, his chemical dependencies, the lying and possibly cheating, my jealousy issues and lack of self esteem/trust, the fact ...

She says I am too quiet compared to her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - i've been in this relationship for almost two years now and most things we do argue about is me being quiet in the relationship..she said am too quiet compared with her ex.,.am fed up of the whole stuff.. I have my own ex, but being with her is s...

He has a long term girlfriend and I know nothing can happen between us, but I am starting to lose my resolve! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Back in June of last year, I began working at a company doing data entry (I'm a college student, and the hours are flexible, so... glorious!), and my boss and I immediately hit it off. At the time he was my direct superior, but he has since been ...

Responsibly Dating/Committing After Enduring Emotional Trauma. Rebound Unacceptable.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My best friend is deeply in love with me and recently asked me to marry him. The thing is I also love him but I'm uncertain if I am in love with him. He knows I love him platonically but when he asks if deeper more I shut completely down ...

Girlfriend unsatisfied with the way life turned out for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I have been dating an older girl (by a few years) for a little over a year. She says she is very into me and that I am her world, as she is mine. From the start, my girl had a lot of baggage for me to handle, which I didn't mind at first because ...

Is there a middle ground where I can be the pleasant girl he fell in love with but make sure he knows he needs to get on top of things if he wants to keep me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. For the first year, we rarely ever fought, and when we did it was nothing too serious. For the last six months things have been a lot more rocky (though we've had our ups as well). I...

He isn't physically affectionate, does he not like me or is he shy?

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19 January 2011 (F) - Alright here's the thing, I have a boyfriend, his name is Alphonsus, he's real sweet funny and weird, we've been dating for about a month now and you'd think 'awwwww y'all are holding hands and hugging all day', but no...he's shy, or he doesn't like ...

I have difficulty opening up my feelings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I'm having difficulty opening up with my feelings. My girlfriend wants me to trust her completely with the good and bad so she can share the same back with me. To me this sounds like the promised land of relationships but my every instinct, ...

Scared of marriage, commitment and responsibility of bringing up a child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4851 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - i am a 30 year old woman and i am extremely scared of marriage and commitment. the guy i am committed to is extremely nice and everything i could have wished for, give or take a few annoying habits, but that's not the point. he has been hinting...

How can a guy change his mind on a daily basis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - How in the world do I understand this man? I have been fooling around with a younger man for almost a year now. He told me recently that he doesn't want an emotional relationship with me. That made me laugh out loud! This guy is sensitive, em...

Is she taking me for a fool and for someone to laugh at?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

I'm bi. My loving man accepts my needs. But now I'm in love with a woman. Out of my mind with guilt. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4852 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hi Aunties I came her for some advice about guilt and love. I'm married to a good man for 22 years. we have 5 children and all but 2 of them are off to college. My husband treats us good. He's a good father and husband. He's always put us before ...

Is it time for me to say enough is enough?

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19 January 2011 (F) - i could use some advice...PLEASE.....HELP...... I am a 30 yr old single mother of three beautiful children.. I fell in love with a man a couple years ago we talked for a whole year before actually getting together and I really thought we were ...

Should I send him a message telling him that I am turned off?

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19 January 2011 (F) - So the guy I am seeing stills goes on pof every night. Approx a week ago I told him I would like for him not to go on pof, and of course he said he wasn't looking for anyone, just checks mail and has friends, and actually said his cousin was on it ...

Best friend of my Ex seems interested. How should I handle this? I'm not over my ex yet.

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19 January 2011 (F) - So, my ex whom I lived with for two years (and still secretly have unresolved feelings for).. he left me 9 months ago and now has another girlfriend who is long distance.. Anyway, we always hung out with his one and only best friend.. I tried to d...