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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Does she actually think I would have a chance with a beautiful model?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - My gf and I were watching television the other day and an ad with this attractive model came on, she asked me, 'Would you approach her?', even though she knows I'm not the type to flirt with other women. She doesn't act like the insecure type a...

I lied and told her I'd had sex with 4 girls but I'm a virgin. I can't change my story now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I am, what most people would call, the stereotypical nerd. I have never been a ladies' guy, and am mostly introverted. However, few years back when I was a sophomore in college, an "out-of-my-league" girl in my Organic Chemistry class became really ...

When I'm with him, I'm happy, when apart, I over analyze everything

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I had been dating this guy I met online for 6 months before I decided to call it quits. The thing is, he's constantly calling, emailing and texting...trying his best to win me back. I'm not sure if it's guilt, or true love - but I'm starting to ...

I think she says this just to make me feel good

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - She says she's sexually intimidated by me, yet she's had quite a few sexual partners she's had 6 before me, she's in her mid 20's and has had some pretty wild sex from what she's told me, so how can she be intimidated by me, when we've been going at ...

How come being a devoted girlfriend is not enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Trying to make the decision either to ignore statements or end it w boyfriend. Been together 8 years. Tired of his comments that he would like to see me w another man or women. I understand more of him wanting to see me w another women, most men...

Guys want girls to be exclusive but don't want to be exclusive themselves

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Why do guys always feel like they can make a girl commit to him exclusively and not the other way around?Meaning the girl cannot have her say, like express her feelings of commitment (ask him to be her boyfriend), or something like that, whatever it ...

I'm scared he likes her more than me. He's dumped me and hurt me before. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He then asked for me back, telling me all he could think about was me and that he just wanted to be with me. He and I then went to hang out, and he wanted me to have sex with him. I kept telling him ...

I doubt she will ever leave her boyfriend for me, another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - i'm bi, and so is my best friend. we both have boyfriends. the thing is, im in love with her...every day i enjoy seeing her. we hug and constantly flirt (sometimes people think we're lesbians, but we dont care...we tell eachother we love eachother ...

My best friend and I haven't talked for 2 months. She refuses my apologies. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Well my bestfriend and i haven't talked for 2 months, we got into a huge argument and we decided to just stop talking. Its killing me inside, we used to do everything together, sports, mall, family events, etc. Now that she's gone i feel empty and ...

My husband's GF is harrassing me. My husband's screaming at me. We are in debt. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Help, i'm 29 and was happily married for five years with three children when my husband told me he had an affair, the reason he told me was she was blackmailing him. I was wrong she is pestering me by phone, text, E-mail, facebook, in person. i have ...

I have strong feelings for my BF's brother. I don't want to hurt anyone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I fancy my boyfriend's brother so much, it kills me to look at him. I don't think I've ever felt such a strong sexual desire for anyone. The more I try not to think about it the more I do. I really don't want to feel like this but I'm not sure how ...

My girlfriend is doing things she would not let me do. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - my gilfriend met my mate off facebook and met him in town, and i think a bit of flirting - because i went with them, and she is going to town with him tomorrow as well. i wont to meet my friend which is a girl, with her friends. And my girlfriend ...

Help me sort out this mess...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi well my ex boyfriend and i were really cool after we broke up. then he started liking me again! it got really annoying so i hooked him up with one of my best friends which i think was my biggest mistake. me and my ex realize that we still have ...

He just replaces one woman for another and I'm feeling hurt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met a man on-line who asked me out, when I replied to him 2 days later, he said he had met someone else and was going to ask her to be exclusive. I wished him well. Several weeks later I get a message from this same man, asking m...

Fiance's ex forbids him seeing his children if I do something she doesn't like!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - im going to make this short and simple. im with my fiance who has 2 kids by his ex-wife, what should i do, everytime i do something she does not like she tells him he cant see his kids. its not fair to him, what should i do ?...

Help! I want to forget the bad love and shift to the good love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I met her (A) last year at a christmas party and fell in love with her immediately. So beautiful. So funny. And damaged. I love those damaged girls. I even had a girlfriend at the time who I wasnt crazy about romantically but had a great ...

What exactly is he playing at?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - He told me that he would not be able to marry me but could always be my boyfriend. When I said that he was not the right man for me, he then got worried and didn't want me to leave. But I still left and he said he was thinking about what I said as ...

I need options other than marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I seem to always meet the wrong guys, am beginning to feel maybe marriage is not meant for me. Am seriously considering remaining single and adopting a child. Is there any other alternative? Am just tried of been betrayed over and over again but ...

I am horrible to my girlfriend when drunk

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I want to know peoples views on what I should do, and how I can ensure this never happens again. This new years myself and my girlfriend went to a party. I got extremely drunk. I hurt my girfriend's wrists by holding them extremely hard (...

I want to initiate an affair with a married friend of my wife and mine

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I am a married man,38. I have strong feelings for an older woman who is also married and is a friend of us. I can tell from her looks that she has the same feeling. Nothing has happened up to this moment, not a word expressed, nothing at all. Ca...

My boyfriend has a crush on his hairdresser?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm 18 years old, and I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I thought we were getting along great, but yesterday he told me he had a crush on his hairdresser. He claimed it's just something stupid, and that it doesn't affect how he is...

My wife doesn't want sex and I don't want an affair

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My wife has not wanted sex for over 2 years. Should i consider a prostitute. I do not want an affair....

I've tried to be a friend, but I have been played for a fool

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - sorry for the length but please guys can anyone advise. ive known a guy for over a year. I thought we were good friends hes had a lot of personal issues and trauma which ive been there for him, hes borrowed a fairly large amount £400 ? in bits over ...

How do I win back this girl's heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I fell in love with her as soon as I met her. For the first time I had met someone just like me, a soulmate, and it didn't take me long to believe we were made for each other. Also for the first time I felt what it was like to really love a girl and ...

My husband wants me to abort our baby because his parents will otracise us

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I have been married for 1 year and have been with my husband for two (2) years. We have a 13 month old daughter together and he has a three (3) year old boy from a previous relationship, whom we have part-time custody of. My husbands parents were ...

I just want him to kiss me ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I've written here before about this guy. We've been seeing each other for about 3 months. During that time he's been recovering from a surgery. We talk 24/7 via phone calls, text, and get together about once a week. Last night, New Year's Eve, we ...

I just want him to say he doesn't want me any more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I need to get over my ex. I'm not too sure how to do it. It has been a year. He says he loves me but he jus can't be with me because I had a baby by someone else(I did not cheat) however I think if you truelly love somebody you can work threw ...

My friends hate my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - i am in a relationship with a guy and my friends hate him so we have to sneak everything we do but i hate doing it cuz we are madly in love what should i do?...

I am depressed and confused and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm so depressed. i cannot get over my ex who dumped me. my aunt told me that i have unresolved issues that i have to resolve b4 i can move on. the problem is i don't know what it is or how i may go about resolving. help...

I like to cuddle my best friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My friend, who is a girl, and I are best friends. We are really close and I trust her with almost everything. We have sleepovers a lot and always sleep in same bed and cuddle. Is that wrong? sometimes we stay up all night just hugging or rubbing ...

Not sure what to do. Fiance threw her ring at me after a huge fight. I think I've had enough.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Not quite sure what to do here. My fiance of 3 months (dated a total of 2 years 5 months.. lived together for a year and a half) and I got into a big blowout over how I "never listen" and take friends opinions more seriously and how I "lie" about ...

How can I turn my life around so I don't feel the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I go to an all guy school.... There's only 2 other girls and I'm not Friends with anyone there... It's a school for bad behavior and learning dissabilitys... I have troubles around males... And bad trusting issues... My biological dad abused me and ...

When I see him I fall in love all over again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Dear cupid this boy i have the biggest crush on delted me on blackberry messenger cause i sayd something i shouldnt ... I need to get over him but i try its really hard. But when i see him i fall in love him again ! When i see him in school w...

I love her and she's pregnant with another man's baby

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - help!! im in love with a girl that is pregnant with another mans baby what do i do? i really love this girl i dont want to lose her i am cofused any kind of advice will help!...

Boyfriend leaves me pregnant and alone, ends things with a text!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, im really confused and dont have a clue what to do or think! My boyfriend and i met just over three years ago. We got together after a few months of dating and will have been together three years in february. Everything has been ...

After leading me on, she tells me she has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - hi every1 sorry if this is a bit of a long question . im gonna try 2 keep it as short as i can. but i just really need sum help. i met sum girl last summer that i reealy liked, and she liked me bak. but of course, summer ended and that was tha e...

He flirted at first but now he's not texting back. Is he over me already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Well, I know I shouldn't be freaking out on something like this, but... Okay I like this guy and we've talked for a while and now and he asked me for my number. so i gave it to him. and he flirted first, but he's not texting back! What should i do?!...

I don't understand him, please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm 16 and I live in Florida. My family and I just went to our hometown in Wisconsin to visit old family and friends. My dad wanted to visit his old highschool buddy so when we got to his house, I immediately hit it off with his 16 year old son. We ...

So confused, I do still love him, but I love myself too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - To be honest, I do not know what is going on but I will try to explain it. Five years ago, I met this guy and we started dating. This was around 2006. We ended up talking until 2008. At that point we went to different colleges and distance was...

She admitted to faking it! Should I forget about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - hello dear readers so i'm with my gf 1 year and 6 months...so everything is well. But...we were at a party this new year eve, so we drank a little bit as you all know...and we played a game truth all falls, so the questions were asked to my gf, and ...