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writes:My partner and i parted at the beginning of the year, it was i who ended it, as i felt we couldn't carry on anymore as we were. He and i have 2 kids and he now lives with his mum. There were many issues relating to us splitting. Far too many to list, but many no commitment, playing hot and cold, running to and from me and his mums and possible infidelities. So now we have parted he has joined numereous dating sites, stating he wants someone who is clean and honest.This has really hurt me as i find it hard to believe that someone could want to move on so quickly. We bought a laptop and that is how i know he has joined these sites. Is he trying to make me jealous or is it that he genuinely wants to meet someone else? He hasn't really tried to talk about why i felt the way i did, but he does however send my random texts, asking if i want sex with him. Which i find very immature.Should i just walk away and hope he does meet someone through these dating sites?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): been here,it sums a person up in 1. it also shows they dont mind who,as long as theyre not on their own. proves just what you was to them. Time for you to be honest with yourself. you wont ever really feel at ease again now if you go back. eventualy when that person does meet someone,what you thought would rip you to bits is an actual feeling of relief knowing its finaly ended.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): I don't think he is trying to make you jealous. He is just getting on with his life. He sounds a bit immature so I wouldn't take anything he says to heart. Try not to go online to check him out - it will just make you miserable. You are just hurting because of the breakup. It was for the best but you need time to heal and adjust.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (26 January 2011):
 I agree, walk away.
I don't think it matters if he is trying to make you jealous or if he is looking for someone new. He is a father of two yet act more like a 15 year old, who runs to his "mum" every time things get rough. He seems immature.
I think YOU & the kids are better off without him. He is NOT going to change. He sees no reason to.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 January 2011):
Do walk away.
I think you'll find that like a lot of people on dating sites, he's lying. He just says he wants to meet someone 'honest and clean'. The truth is he's the liar. He'll treat the others badly as well.
The fact is, this man moving on from you is the best thing that could have happened. Now you are free to meet a decent guy who thinks with more than just his penis.
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