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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He didnt say much after we fooled around, did I do something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Okay, I've been dating him for about 7 months. And we've just fooled around. Make-out, cuddle. Little stuff. And I finally got the guts to rub his penis. Over his underwear of course. But he was left breathless, and didn't say much afterwar...

Do I just keep moving forward and hope he will in time trust me with his heart again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a man for a few weeks. He is a great guy and we have been falling for each other. The other night we had sex for the first time. It was amazing and I felt safe and close to him. He had some issues keeping his erection and being ...

Is make up sex healthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Is make up sex healthy? I got into a argument with my girlfriend 2 weeks, ago. Up until earlier on today, she wouldn't speak to me unless I asked her a question like if anyone called or if she needed help with anything. We then made up because I ...

I don't like my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend!

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3 January 2011 (F) - hi i have a problem with my boyfriend ex-girlfriend. we have been together for five years and we are engaged. he has got a child with his ex-girlfriend. i rearly don't like her she has cost so much heart ache, she is useing her daughter to ...

What should I do, move on and forget or keep believing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've had such a difficult life. Ever since my parents got divorced when I was 5, everything has went down hill. My dad cheated on my mom and left her, me and my brother with absolutley nothing. And when I say nothing, I mean... Nothing. He ...

I feel like our whole relationship is becoming purely physical, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been daing for 1 year and a few months now. And i feel like our whole relationship is becoming about being physical! Should i be worried.. or just happy he is into me? he is a sweet guy and i dont want to be mean! ...

Am I to blame for the break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I met this guy last year and instantly we connected. We started off as friends but the more we got to know each other the more our friendship blossomed into a relationship. We wanted the same things out of life, had the same values and morals and ...

I think I have fallen for my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - It's a familiar teenage girl tale, my best friend and I are incredibly close; we've only known each other a few years but it feels like forever! There's no one else in the world I feel as close to; I can tell her anything and she's the same with ...

Is this cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Is this cheating? I just now found out that while my long time GF and I were going through our turbulent part of our relationship, she was going out partying more and more, we would fight and stop speaking for weeks, and at times for a month or two, ...

I like all 3 guys but I don't know which one I like the most!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - dear cupid, okay so im in the middle of 3 guys. im not promiscuous or anything, ive just been hurt really bad in the past and im trying to figure out who i really like,and i havnt had sex with any of them either. so here are their personal...

We are expecting twins but still have not moved in together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3yrs now, I sleep at his house everyday but I still have my stuff at my house and pay rent there.He's told me before plenty of times how come I don't move in and I told him he keeps telling me that but yet ...

Should I accept this 'break' and see what happens, or just end it now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm the girl that was writing about the bf's friend sending him a porn link and some cheating related issues. Well finally, I guess it's no surprise to many but my bf has said that he wants a break. It seems as if this is coming o...

Will he change if I just give him some time and space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - hi I'm 21 and 16 weeks pregnant, i told the father when we were not together but still sleeping together and still saying i love you. he does won't the baby and as far as i go he says that my two kids don't respect him and that he has never seen me ...

Is this all he can offer or should I push him for more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Sorry if this long or not a specific question but I just need some advice on what to do and how to handle the situation I'm in.... Met a guy 8 mths ago and fell head over heels and it got intense very quickly. He admitted he had commitment issues a...

Boy problems getting out of hand......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Moved to another country and a close friends best friend said i should contact her boyfriend so he can show me around and also so i wont be lonely as my boyfriend is in another country... my boyfriend recently had sex with another chick and the girl ...

She wont stop being friends with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So theres this guy I was in love with for like 3 years we were never together but now we kind of went our seperate ways and i have a bf now. The problem is is im still not exactly over him and i still thinkg about him a lotttt. well, my best friend ...

Threesome gone terribly wrong...my husband is in love with her, my life is a mess and I'm pregnant with our 4th child!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I feel like I'm at my wits end. I am so conflicted about what I should do that I am in a constant state of depression where it's almost debilitating. It all started about a year and a half ago. My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we ...

All I want is the help I'm entitled to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Here the deal, My husband and I have been separated for over a year we decided to make things work. So we have talked about moving in together. The point is nothing has change. he promised he has. he has job security issues. He gets really depressed ...

Why do women so often go back to their abusers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Why are some women so stupid? Not trying to be sexist, trust me, this is why I said SOME women. Let me define, specifically women that will remain trapped in an abusive relationship, not only once, but then walk right back into it thinking it's...

I'm always asking myself what would've been if I'd never left home for him..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I'd love some advice on a problem that's been plagueing me. About 12 years ago I met my husband on a holiday in Italy. We fell in love, married and now have two small children. Although it was a hard decision to make at the time I ...

We've been dating 10 months and she still doesn't know my number by heart?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - So, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4+ months and I came to realize that she doesn't know my number by heart. No big deal is what I initially thought but then I found out that she still know's her ex's number by heart (they dated for 2 ...

Moved in together 6 months ago, now he's distant and neglects me. Red flags?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I moved in together about six months ago. I got accepted to Teacher's College in a different city and asked him if he wanted to come with me. His job in our original city is very flexible and his boos told him he can come back to ...

Looking for some relationship help while on a break from my girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - She has always told me that she wouldnt cheating and would never leave me it sounds stupid but i after some time i started to believe her. now later down the road she tells me that 6 months ago she cheated on me with some guy she only saw 3 times ...

He wants to keep things casual and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I am a hormonal emotional wreck. The man I hv been with for many years just informed me he wants to keep things the way they are at the moment. We live in separate homes . The twist in this I am 3 months pregnant . He wants things to remain...

I'm feeling like second string, he's engaged but talking to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - The guy i love and been with for abt a year, recently got engaged to his far related cousin because of his family. He tells me that thrs nth he can do abt it. When i got to know abt it, we decided to be friends at first(i really got hurt). But then ...

I'm pregnant and boyfriend hit me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

3 January 2011 (?) - I need some advice badly. So my boyfriend and I got into an argument. It was really bad, we were yelling and stuff, it was bad. Then he hit(punched) me in the face. I slapped his face and then he shoved me into the wall. Then he left and went...

It is wrong that it disturbs me that my guy gets massages?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hello, This might come in as a weird question, but I'd appreciate any advice I can get. I'm 39 and have a wonderful guy I'm going to be married to and well, should I have reason to be wary about my guy going to spas to get a massage from any...

How do I get over her losing her virginity while we were broken up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I've had a relationship with this girl for over a year. We took a break and got back together. I found out when we weren't dating she slept with someone and she was a virgin when we broke up. I'm hurt and it's been months now and I can't get over it ...

Why does he not want kids with me? He has a 5 year old daughter already!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Ok, so I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. He is 24 and i am 19. He has a 5 year old daughter in which i have learned to love. I used to be jealous of their relationship but im learning not to be. His ex girlfriend is not in the ...

Why do guys run when you mention "baby"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - i going to be giving birth in the next month and the father who i was dating for, for 6 years did a legger as soon as i told him he has a new gf now anyways i have to do it all on my own to be honest i don't think i'm ready to be a mam or to do it ...

Help! Anxiety and depression are ruining my life and relationship! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hello! Thank you for taking the time to read the following. I know it's long, but I've come across posts by others where they've been asked for more details, so here goes... In the last, I don't know, month or so, I've been feeling like old a...

Is a girlfriend really worth fighting for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - A question for both girls and guys. Is a girlfriend really worth fighting for? i dont mean like you meet a girl and you try to make yourself better than the other guys shes with, but i mean if both you and the other guy have been with her and you ...

I'm afraid he would force me to do something I don't want to if I go do other things with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - theres this guy who really likes me but he only wants to have sex with me like sometimes i want to then other times i feel kind of dirty talking to him because he will talk about all the stuff he wants to do with me. he is three years older then me ...

Things went bad a long time ago, so why do I still keep talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about four months ago. We were together two and half years, a good year and a half was spent together while he was incarcerated. I waited for him but, after a year I fell out of love with him and cheated on him. But, I ...

Is my boyfriend just being disrespecful and a prick?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, So i have been dating this guy for 4 months. At frist he was really sweet. However, lately he has been very sexual. He always asking me to send him dirty pictures, make a sex video, and do naughty things. Also, for x-mas all he wan...

Boyfriend treated me really badly at times but now that we are broken up I feel really sad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Ok I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years, im 26 years old, he's 35. We met at the restaurant he worked since he's a chef, and at the time I worked part time there since I was still a law school student. Along the way in our r...

Is he only using me for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - okk this is kinda a hard topic for me to talk about and iv asked al my friends and they have all said to just leave him.. but i realy like this guy but the problem is, is that im only just turned 17 and hes nearly 20 and asian so his family d...

If she means nothing to him then why all the secrets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Help! Im in a relationship with a man who has been engaged and he has a child. The engagement ended about a year ago (which is a short amount of time to start dating again) but when we met it was perfect.He opened up to me and i've never let him ...

Why can I help everyone else find love but not for myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I am a single parent of two kids and I dont have nobody in my life its just me and the kids. I want to know why I can help everybody else find love but not myself?...

Is he leading me on? Does he just want a friend with benefits? I'm confused

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Ok so I met this guy a couple years ago and we were friends with benefits for a short while. Then in the begining of 09 he moved out of state but we started talking again right before he moved. We really liked each other but lost touch again soon ...

Should leave? My husband is still not happy, even though I've done all he asked of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 12 years, married for about 2. We met when we were teens, and I admit for the past several several years I have had some intimacy issues...I have had an extremely difficult time opening up sexually and init...

My ex said he doesn't care about me and never will. I'm crying my eyes out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - my ex officially cut me off for the same reason below... what do i do now? he told me he doesn't care about me and he never will... And if i have a miscarriage he really wouldn't care.. i'm crying my eyes out because i didn't believe that this is ...

He says our relationship 'isn't worth it' to make the changes I think it needs. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having been together for almost 2 years now, but it looks like our relationship is coming to a close. I feel I definitely have a lot of things to work through that I can't focus on when I'm focusing on the peaks and ...

I have a girl friend but I want to kiss my male friend. Am I gay or confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Hey I dunno if I'm gay or not, I have had a girlfriend now for two years but have recently started to find guys attractive and I want to kiss my best mate. I'm so confused, help...

Can and should a relationship continue once violence has started?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Last night my boyfriend and I got really drunk at my place to try and re-celebrate our new years. We were both running off 5 hours of sleep that night and I was very moody due to the time of the month. He also has bipolar disorder and has frequent ...

He fell out of love, could he ever just magically love me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Im 24 and married. he is also 24. our relationship for the past 5 yrs has been very rocky. when we first started dating i was very in love first real love, etc etc... he told me beautiful things i thought id never hear, we were close and intimate...

Son's medical condition goes untreated by his father and father's family

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I am a single mum no bf with a young son who is ADHD and autistic, and I have full custody and am not involved at all with his dad. My son's dad and his family are really p***ing me off :(. This New Yr I want to change things and think I need to ...

Can't get over the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I'm having a hard time forgetting and getting over the past when my boyfriend and I broke up for a year. We have been together for over 6 years now and this situation happened almost 3 years ago yet I keep thinking about it. My boyfriend and I have ...

Is it love? Or am I just afraid of being alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - here goes by the way im 19, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now but lately ive found myself being increasingly irritated by him,and felt like i wanted to break up with him.However anytime ive considered actually breaking up with him ...

One day she's in my lap, the next night shes cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - what should i do when i feel my girlfriend pulling away. one day shes in my lap and like over night she seems to pull away. i should probably do the same. ...