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My boyfriend is not romantic and I feel neglected. What should I do?

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Question - (26 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2011)
A female Singapore age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. He is an extremely unromantic person... I feel neglected by him because of this. What should I do?

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A female reader, FluffyPie United States +, writes (26 January 2011):

FluffyPie agony auntIt's obvious you two have different views on romanticism. What do you want him to do? Just tell him "You'd make me so happy if you..."

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A female reader, RealGirlNextDoor Spain +, writes (26 January 2011):

Maybe you should take the first step and do something romantic for him or for eachother. If you feel that him not being romantic is making you feel neglected you should talk to him about it, but take into account that you can't make people change and if this bothers you so much and he is not willing to change you should maybe try finding someone who fits your romatic personality better.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011):

You should elaborate. My boyfriend isn't romantic either but I don't feel neglected. What does he do/not do specifically that makes you feel neglected? What do you want him to be doing?

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