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Archived questions from: 10 January, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Engaged, but I have always loved someone else.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - I am 26 and currently engaged to a very lovely woman, but before I met her I was in love with another woman. the reason why i wasn't with the other woman is because she had been through a few heartbreaking relationships and was afraid that she would ...

What should I do about my sister copying me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - What should I do about my sister copying me constantly? My sister is 8 years older than me and has always been a bit two faced and nasty to me even though we are fairly close. Without going into too much detail she and her friends always u...

My boyfriend won't propose, he comes up with lame excuses!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and we've lived together for 4 of those years. He won't propose and comes up with lame excuses. The thought of starting all over with someone else stinks but I'm tired of his excuses. Should I stay or ...

He spends all his time at his friend's house who happens to have a wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have recently moved in together to a city which is 30 minutes away from my friends and family. His best friend, however, lives less than five minutes from us which makes it easy for him to go hang out whenever he'd like. To top it ...

He's moving for work and doesn't want me with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Please help. I've been living with my bf for two years and things aren't good financially atm. He was made redundant a year ago and hasn't been able to find work. This has affected him badly and we've also been living literally hand to mouth. ...

Partner of 11 years won't live with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I've had the same partner for more than eleven years now. He asked me to marry him (ring included) six months into our relationship and I happyily accepted. We lived together for a brief period but for the past 6 years we have lived apart. He ...

I broke up with her and now I'm devestated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so ive made a really big mistake. i broke up with my girlfriend of four years in early december... this is the fourth time ive broken up with her and every other time she has taken me back. i was very unhappy. I never knew what i was unhappy ...

Am I supposed to put my life on hold and wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I am divorced and have been for about 5 years and have met some real losers but about 2 years ago a wonderful guy came into my life, we met through some mutual family friends that have known both of us since we were children, we just clicked and ...

I love this guy but he doesn't want to be in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Hi i was wondering if you could help me at all. Bascially, i was in a relationship with my ex partner we lived together for 5 years and then he finished things as he thought he was too tied down i was literally all over the place and it reallt cr...

Boyfriend of 2 years has become distant. I don't know why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I have been going out with my bf for the past 2years and in the past four weeks he has become distant with me doesnt kiss me or hold me he just isnt as affectionate with me as he once was am really starting to feel like he is loosing intrest in me ...

Is my boyfriend just a dude being a dude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is on a forum that talks about just BS stuff, the weather - girls - porn - sex pretty much anything but he's always saying things to people in a sexual way, for example a guy on there posted something that his gf sent him and he put a ...

Am I being too clingy or is there a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Here we go... I am having a communication problem with my boyfriend of a year and a few months, and I don't know if it is me being clingy and needing to talk or its something else. Our normal week consists of him driving a hour and a half to...

When does flirting go too far?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I have recently become concerned about my own behaviour. I have always been a flirt and for the most part my friends partners never seemed to mind - or at least to the point where they've never minded enough to address the issue with me. But it ...

Can a relationship recover after cheating by a partner?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I'm very curious about this because I have been cheated on. I would reallly like to move past it, and still be in a relationship with this man. He has done everything he can to earn my trust back and I do completely trust him again. I don't think he ...

Torn between two guys and I don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Ok although my situation is long and complicated I guess it boils down to the fact I like two amazing guys. The first has been my bf for 3 years. We have had some great times and I love him dearly but the relationship has become stale (and please ...

My mother needs to stop making me look like a pathetic role model in my kids eyes.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I'm not looking for pity but I feel like cow dunk.My mother's always putting her nose in my business but yesterday I couldn't take her insults anymore when she tried to make me out as a poor example of a mother to 4 kids. It started over dinner when ...

I cant tell if she wants me to ask her out again or if she just wants to be friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - I need some opinions or advice: asked her out several times. First time she had a boyfriend, 2nd time after they broke up, third time she said she wasn't ready for a new relationship. We are long distance now, but when I catch her online she always ...

He wants me to move to be with him but I don't trust him! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - So my best friend introduced me to this guy she used to work with. I started talking to him although he lived about 2,000 miles away from me. I was a little hesitant because he was so far but I thought, what the heck who knows where this can go.. So ...

My partner left me and is pregnant with my baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - About 2 years ago I started dating a good friend of my brothers she was only just 18 at the time where I was coming up to 23. But we both got on very well and liked spending time with each other. But then I realized she had a hard time at school a...

I feel so awful for what I did to her, and I know I deserve to feel this way, but how do I start the healing process?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Hi there, I've recently been through, and put others through, quite an ordeal. My boyfriend, who I have been seeing for 4 months now, is wonderful. He's everything I've ever wanted, and I love him more than anything. The thing is, we start...

Should I tell her how I feel or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - basically I'm in love with a good friend's sister..usually I'm good emotionally and see things cleary but I'm just so confused right now and dunno what to do. Basically I work with this guy and we are pretty good mates.. Both in work and outside ...

In love with both my girlfriend and my girl on the side, who do I choose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - I have been dating my gf for a while now(plus 5 years) and I really love her, but over the past year I have been seeing another girl. This other girl has the best sex I ever had, better than my gf. I have falling for the other girl basically due to ...

Will I sound crazy if I mention this concern?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - This is kind of complicated so I apologize in advance. This guy and I were initially work friends who hooked-up. He had broken up with his gf a couple months prior and I ended things with my bf during that summer. I assumed that we would h...

Will my babies be born with problems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I was married to my first cousin 5 month ago….now I want be a mother. But I have herd that the baby born for relatives are born with physical or mental problem. Please help me....

He asked me to marry him and then took it back, now he is engaged to somebody else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - HELP!!!! ok here is the thing ive been friends with this guy for 8 years we know absolutly everything there is to know about eachother i know things that not even his supposed wife to be knows. he only trusts me with most things we are best friends ...

I want him to know that I know he was lying!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - So I am talking to this guy whom I occasionally work with and I hang out with, we have slept together a few times, we hang out more than anything. So he works alot and the other day it was my birthday and we were suspossed to hang out for my ...

I feel like I'm being punished for the mistakes of his two ex wives!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating this gentleman for the last 5 years. I've come to realize that we will never have a future together. He has 5 children and three live with him. He's been coming over to my place every weekend(shares my home and food) and never ...

I'm 6 months pregnant and my mother wants to kick me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I really need your help. My mother I thought I could trust Out of everyone everything I tell her she goes and tells my step father. She thinks me and my babys dad were having sex in my room when it was a movie and my mother crys about everything...

My boyfriend's family doesn't accept me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I never wrote to one of these before, so do bear with me! I have been with my boyfriend for now a year. I live in Northern Ireland, where religion slightly matters. My boyfriend is a Protestant and I'm a Catholic. Boyfriend told me that his...

Complicated Situation with the Man I Love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I have known this guy for quite sometime and he told me that he was filing for divorce but I heard rumors that he lied about it. We have gotten reaquainted online; by calling each other. The last time we spoke was 3 days ago and he told me that he ...

I'm guessing she wants marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - Hello readers. I am Adrian and I need some serious advices about my relationship. So, this is my second relationship and her first one; I must say it took me a hard time to chase her and our relationship started very slowly compared to my f...

I wonder if actions speak louder than words?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Lemme start off by saying I'm not trying to sound selfish or spoiled or anything alone those lines. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and I love him very much. He says he loves me but sometimes I wonder if actions so speak louder than words. ...

Should my girlfriend and I transfer colleges?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 19 and have been dating for 2 years. We both just completed our first semester of college. The problem is, we made a decision to go to separate colleges back when our relationship was still young. But we know now that we ...