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writes:me and my boyfriend have been together for over three years we live together. recently he has been really crabby towards me because times are slow at work for him, and he says i am lazy because i dont do enough house work, even though i work two jobs and make more money than him. i never rub it in his face or try to make him feel insecure about. anyways today he told me that he hates living where we live he hates living with me and that he hates his job. im wondering if i should take this personally and want out of this relationship or should i try to stick it out. i love him but at the same time im sick of being treated like shit what should i do?
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (6 January 2009):
 He is venting his frustrations out on you because of his work issues which is wrong but i guess men/women up and down the country are doing exactly the same thing we are all feeling the pinch!
However your doing more than your fair share and he is oblivious to that so time to talk tell him he is making you feel like shit! and your not having it tell him you know times are hard for a lot of people he ain't the only one in this boat! when he sees how annoyed you are at him hopefully he will see reason here and apologise if he does then love him as before now you know where you stand. If he refuses to acknowledge any of the above then you both need to talk a little further until he understands that you need to know the reasons why he is saying all these hurtful things to you and has to explain more than he is to you good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): There isn't another reason for his crabbyness is there? - Like another woman..?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Do you have the ability to pay for the place yourself? If so tell him, if he's so unhappy to pack his stuff and leave. If you have a lease/morgage you can't afford on your own, then arrange for a new roomate, THEN tell him to move out. Cover your bases in other words.
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reader, satindesire +, writes (6 January 2009):
 I think you should take his words at face value...men aren't subtle...they say what they think and they don't play games.
He doesn't want to live with you anymore and he's treating you like crap. You may love him but it looks like he doesn't feel the same way about you anymore honey.
I would move out and break up, there's no excuse for treating your mate like crap.
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