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writes:My gf and I have been going out for 5 months but lately weve become distant and Ive talked to her about breaking up but she desperatley wants to keep going with it. So a couple of days ago her mom dropped her off at my house to stay for about 12 hours of that day and for the first 2 hrs. everything was fine but then she literally spent the next 10 hrs. hanging out with my little sister who is like 3 yrs. younger than her,and barely said a word to me. Is it okay for me to be horrifyingly upset over the fact that when I tell my gf I want to break up for lack of time spent together, she spends more time with my little sister than me the next time we see each other? Also the next day I went to the mall with her mom and as soon as she got the newest Twilight book she decided wed leave to take me home early so she could read and even read i the car and we actually said 0 words to each other in the hour long ride except for goobyes. Would anyone else be pissed off over this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Western3589 +, writes (3 January 2009):
 You need to tell her unless she can try harder ut wont work out. Also try being involved with her more if she does not pay direct attention to you. Like if she played with your little sis you should go play too. This will show her your fun to ne arouns and will want to spend more time alone again
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): Mate I'm sorry if this is harsh, but you need to work out if she is worth it, and if not, find someone who is.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 January 2009):
It says you are 22 but I'm guessing you are much younger.
Yes you have a right to be hurt, she has acted insensitively.
Talk to her again about it and point out that she said she would make more effort and she just hasn't. If you want to break up with her then do it.
If she wants another chance then really talk to her about it, find out why she is acting this way and chose to hang out with your sister over you etc.
Good Luck!! xx
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