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writes:ok i am 13 and in 8th grade i am kinda overweight but these girls in my spanish class are always trying to start fights with me cause they think it is easy to hurt me but every time they start agrivating me and arguing with me i start arguing back i just cant help it. but after they go to the teachers and tell them that i am trying to start a fight but im not. these girl were my best friends last year they got mad at me for being friends with someone else (there crush) and they have been mean to me sense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): hey im a guy, 14 in the 8th grade and my schooll has dat kinda of dramma all the time, even worse than dat so i no wat ur goin through..
all the grls ccome to me for advice so i give them it(kind of a chick magnet-ladiesman-)..
what i have to say is juss forget about them!!!
act like you dont even see them because when they're arguing they're trying to aggrivate you into doing somethin.. so arguing back is juss givvin in
and they're juss mad cause your friends with the guy they like..juss because your closer to him and they're not
sdo dont worry and act like you dont notice them
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank yall for answering winter break is over on monday so ill try your suggestions and ill tell yall how they work
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): i was bullied at school and reading what you wrote this is what these girls are - bullies.
you need to talk to an adult you trust and tell them about these girls. do not retaliate to their remarks, you will look bad, and there are more of them then you, so teachers will have a tendancy to believe the group over yourself.
alternatively, speak to the girls one on one. tell them how you are felling and hope that they are mature enough to stop their behaviour
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): Junior high girls are going to be catty. Just be secure about yourself and don't let it get to you.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (2 January 2009):
 You need to learn to keep your mouth shut when they start crap. I know it's hard, but take the high road.
Ignore Ignore Ignore.
Your weight have nothing to do with them being idiots btw. Weight can be lost - Stupid is forever.
Good luck!
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