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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:after speaking to him how i feel about the fact that he still had a photo of his ex wife on their wedding done, and her number under sweetheart. I told him how feel and hurt i was. To make a long story sort, he said i am special to him and i mean a lot to him, the photo was something he found, he did not even know he had it, every now and then his phone reboots and all his settings change back to what it was, which is understandable blackberries normally do that. The 'problem' is he said he wants to respect me and treat me like a princess, the way he should have been treating from the start, but due to being so weak had fallen and ending up being 'naughty' he said he was sorry and that he would behave himself the way he ought to. Ill be honest, he means the world to me, but after all this has happened he stopped having sex with me!!.. What is the reason for this, did i do something wrong?
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reader, pietry  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Perhaps he has trouble letting go of his ex wife. And he perhaps thought that marrying you will solve his problem and make him happy but it actually didn't. You should talk to him and see if this really is the issue.
You never do something wrong by loving someone and if he means the world to you it means you really do and there is nothing to blame on you.
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reader, Michelaa  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 No you haven't done something wrong. From my point of view there are a backround to this story he is hiding something from you and as it looks it is rather serious. speak to him and ask him why arent use making love anymore and watch for his responce men aint good liers x
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