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Should I just stay out of my neighbors drama?

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Question - (2 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2009)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have neighbors that live in the same duplex building. They were divorced when I met them. I started out as friends with the man because he has a son a couple years older then my daughter. Then when his ex moved in we became friends and I don't talk to him anymore. For a while we would hang out and one time we were drinking and he tried to sleep with me. I left and never drank with him again. After that I found out a couple months later with his ex I was now friends with that they were dating at the time. I didn't tell her that he tried anything though. She has had evidence so many times of him cheating and only a DAY one day before he asked her to re-marry him she found naked pictures of another girl he was talking to on his phone. I kind of want to tell her about what happened but at the same time they live right next to me and I don't think she will ever leave him. Should I just stay out of it and never tell her or should I tell her after I move back to my home state?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009):

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Well I do wish there was some way to convince her to leave him because she said he has beat her before to. I'm giving up though because she called me today and told me they were going to go get married.

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A male reader, roadman United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2009):

roadman agony auntI agree leave people business alone and mind your own!

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A female reader, Jmo United States +, writes (2 January 2009):

Jmo agony auntStay out of it. She already knows he's cheating. It won't help anything for her to think that you could possibly be part of the equation. That will just make things awkward for you. If she asks you, however, tell her. Don't make their drama yours.

-Jmo

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