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writes: I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend. This man makes me feel like I am on the top of the world, he is a amazing person the thing is he is much older than me and has a girlfriend in his hometown; we live in two different states. The thing is that I am in a relationship and have been now for the past 8 years and the sizzle is just gone so I started talking to this guy he has been in his relationship for over 20 years and I feel bad because I could be the reason for there break up if he is caught again. My boyfriend now is never here with me. We do everything separate and rarely do anything together. I tell him all the time I feel like we are just roommates with benefits once upon a time I was very in love with him but not anymore! Am I wrong for having feelings for another person, and is it maybe we have both just changed and I need to break it off. Have you ever felt that you were meant for someone else who already has a girlfriend (the other man and his GF are just like me and my BF)or is bad to have that feeling? Is it gross that the other man is 49 and I am only 27 or is age just a number when it comes to relationships (he looks like he is in his early 30's)! My feelings for the Other Man is real but I am confused about what to do! Could this really just be a phase that I am going through since me and my boyfriend have been together for so long and I am just bored, I have so many feelings can someone give me a little advise!!!!!!!
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reader, sheribaby38  +, writes (16 January 2009):
 its sounds like your with the wrong man. if your not in love with your current b/f any more why not let him go? its not fair being with him and your totaly thinking about someone else.
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reader, megan1111 +, writes (16 January 2009):
This sounds like the old adage, "I'm married but getting a divorce". Then you say if he caught AGAIN.....
This is not the man for you unless you don't mind getting hurt, he's a cheater who doesn't mind cheating with you.
You need to let your boyfriend know about your feelings and someone needs to move out before you get involved with another man. But this 49 yr old is not for loving, just for sex and fun. so keep him for what he wants you for unless you decide you want something more meaningful.
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