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I havent heard from him for two weeks, and am thinking he has forgotten me

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Question - (6 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2009)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My male friend, I have deep feelings for is enlisted in the USAF and one month ago he told me he was getting deployed and couldn't reveal the location. He told me to contacted him on Facebook and his email account. We have been Long Distance since we met 3 years ago and have never stopped contact, not even in former deployments.

He left 2 weeks ago, just before Thanksgiving. I only could chat on the phone with him for 3 minutes and couldn't said much. He was happy to hear me but he had to go and said he'll be alright. I haven't heard from him since. I sent him a note for thanksgiving, but he hasn't connect on Facebook or Myspace neither. I'm hinting he might me on Afghanistan, but I don't know. I feel bad because since I'm no relative I cannot know what's going on with him. What should I do? Please help!

I don't want to believe he has forgotten about me :-( It would be too odd for him to do that out of nothing!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you, he actually wrote yesterday!

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (6 December 2009):

Uhhh...if he's out of the country in the military, he might be a little busy. I think you're being a little irrational and worrying over nothing with this. I don't know what's up with going to this undisclosed location, anyone I know that's in the military that has gone to Afghanistan knew they were going and free to tell. So if it really is an undisclosed location, he probably can't have much communication.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009):

Do you know how to contact his family? Maybe you could call or write to them and say you are a good friend and haven't heard from him and were just wondering if he's ok.

With him being deployed, though, it's very possible that he is out in the middle of nowhere and simply can't check in right now.

Does he know how you feel about him and how worried you get? You say he is just a friend but mention you've been 'long distance,' so that's kind of confusing.

Good luck!

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