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writes:I'm in a real pickle here.There was a girl from work i really liked. I vowed that the day i would leave this job I would ask her out. And since she worked there for several years, I always assumed I would be the first one to leave. Problem is that she recently and unexepcetly left.I managed to find her number online. I don't know if it's a current number, but I hope it is.I know it is a bit of a risk calling her, but I don't think i can live with myself having this cloud hanging over my head. I don't even know if she likes me at all.I usally acted kind of passive when i was around her. What should I do? I know i can't just do nothing. If I call her, what should I say? your help is much appreciated Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): I like strontiumdog's advice. I would call her and see if she is okay. But Aunty BimBim is right, if you didn't easily find her number, don't call.
If you do, I wouldn't come on too strong at first. She probably has no idea you like her. See how the conversation goes and take it from there. Believe me, I have experience. Recently, my brother's friend and I 'reconnected' after a long time. After a while, he started telling me about all these feelings he had for me. It totally shocked and wierded me out. So tread carefully and pay close attention to her response to you. Good luck!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (6 December 2009):
 sorry, not sensis in US, regular white pages.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (6 December 2009):
Did you use the regular sensis white pages to locate her number or some other site?
If her number is not listed with white pages and you phone her she may be a bit freaked out, especially in light of the fact you acted passive around her.
I dont understand why you were waiting until you left your job to ask her out, was it company policy?
If she had really wanted to remain in touch with you she would have let you know she was leaving and given you some contact details.
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reader, brovers  +, writes (6 December 2009):
 i dont know if calling her would be good as she may have someone ,which could cause her problems , but if you know she hasnt then call and tell her what you feel and see what she says , no is the only bad thing that could happen good luck
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