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writes:Hi, I have a problem whenever I don't see my GF for a few days I get the feeling she is cheating. I have told her I don't trust her and she was very hurt by it (I said this in anger) but still I told her I will stay on my toes! she has assured me every time that I have nothing to worry about but everything she mentions a guy or a "friend" who I don't know if is a guy or not I start to doubt her again. I am her first serious relationship will be a year in few day. Am I worrying for no reason? How do I stop? I always have told her she better not ever cheat on me and said she won't but for some reason I keep thinking she is or will please help :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): Yes my first Gf did cheat on me 2nd one might have too since I barely ever saw her so maybe that is the reason..?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (6 December 2009):
 You really have to check yourself. Have you been cheated on in the past? Why would you think your girlfriend is cheating on you? If you have no reason to doubt her, you have to try to redirect your thoughts to something positive.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): You need to stop putting her through this and finally decide if you really trust her or not. It's that simple. If you do, stop badgering her about it, and if you don't, dump her. If you were my boyfriend and treating me like that, you'd have been dumped a long time ago!!
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reader, mnman3487 +, writes (6 December 2009):
 Yep. DoubleM hit it right on the head. If she does cheat on you, it'll be because you're constantly accusing her of it not because she's not loyal. If her feelings are important to you, stop the accusations straightaway.
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reader, yussuf  +, writes (6 December 2009):
 I understand the kind of position that you' re in bro , but the thing is that you have no proof to justify your suspicion , What i suggest you do is chill out a bit, she knows how you feeel and i applaud you for making that clear to her. If she's truly yours she'll keep up with her wod.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 December 2009):
 Please forgive me for saying this, because I mean helpfulness and no harm, but you are being immature and totally stupid.
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