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30-35,
*mmaxlouise2011
writes:Theres this gyy he says he really likes me, we've been to the cinema once, and he only really texts me when he wants to meet up with me, and all he really does is pick me up, have sex with me then drop me home again. When i ask him to meet up he either says hes got work or has no money to go out.do you think he is just using me for sex?
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reader, bambi1980 +, writes (6 December 2009):
 Is the guy asking you questions about your life and trying to get to know you? If the answers are no then I'm afraid he is using you. Meet him one more time and don't have sex with him. See if he contacts you again, if not then dump the bozo. If he does then try it a few more times before he gets the hint that you won't just give him what he wants. Make it harder for him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): It's probably just a matter of economics. Sex doesn't cost much whereas a trip to the cinema or a restaurant can be quite expensive. Next time you ask him to meet up, offer to pay for whatever activity you have in mind and see where that takes you. It's only fair for you to pay your way, especially if he buys the condoms, and running a car is very expensive these days. It might take up most of his pay.
There's also the satisfaction of knowing that you're self-sufficient, and seeing as you'll have paid for the night out, you can expect him to be obliged have appreciative sex with you at the end of it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 December 2009):
Yes,I'm afraid he is. You're not alone in the world though. Plenty of women are used by this kind of male. Dump him, cut all contact and find a man who will love you. There are far nicer guys out there.
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