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writes:Last year I met this guy in one of my classes. We didn't really talk that much, but I developed a really big crush on him. I guess you could say it's the biggest/strongest crush I've ever had on a guy that wasn't a celebrity. Basically he doesn't like me and I don't know how to get over him. I don't have him in any classes this semester so I thought I would be able to get over him, but I can't and it doesn't help that I have his brother in a couple of my classes so every time I see him I think of my crush. Almost every night I have dreams with my crush and I'm just like I can't get a break. We're seniors this year and I'm worried that I won't ever be able to get over him and it will bother me for the rest of my life. I've never had this problem before. Is there any thing that can help me get over him? It's really driving me insane.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): Try imagining the fungus between his toes and what the inside of his trainers smell like. A kind of Stilton or Danish Blue cheesy kind of stink. Put some of said cheese under or near your pillow. That ought to do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): I'm a terrible one for crushes-- I've had several, and I agree, they feel almost impossible to break! Very frustrating. Maybe try brainwashing yourself: tell yourself several times a day, but always at bedtime, "I don't like [his name]. He doesn't like me. I don't find him attractive. He's stuck up. He's not worth my time" (or anything else you can think of]. My Dad did this years ago when he wanted to quit smoking (he was a two pack a day man). He just repeated to himself once a day "I'm going to quit smoking. I don't like cigarettes anymore." He told me it took about a month, but one day, he just threw his smokes away and never went back to them. Maybe if you try this, one day you'll wake up and the crush will be gone!I always got over my crushes (haven't had one for a couple of years now). When the next one comes, I'll be trying the brainwashing technique. ;) Hope it helps!
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reader, lovergurl +, writes (11 December 2009):
wow i had a problem like that but yea see are u sure that u just aint attracted to his looks? because MAYBE as u get to know him u the less u like him
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