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How do I get over her?

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Question - (11 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *s Skull writes:

I was great friends with my girl friend. We studied together and I helped her in ways that no one would ever do for another person. I beleived in her. After she passed her exams she apparently decided I was not worthy of her friendship and stopped talking and emailing me. Now she won't return my calls or emails. I am broken hearted. How do I get over her. I know know she was a witch and only wanted to take my time and money but I find it hard to believe after spending over 1,000 together in person and on the phone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009):

the best way to get over a user is to find someone else, or something else to focus on. the very worst thing is to sit around with nothing to do...it gives you entirely to much time to think. stay busy, and good luck. im sorry that she was using you and hurt you. what a reproach to womanhood. mal

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009):

Sometime ago I experienced the same thing, where i assisted a young lady whom I was in love with to complete her studies. The agreement is that I would help her through Nursing School and she would assist me through law school afterwards. Since she became a Registered Nurse, we've been marriied for 6yrs but separated for the last two. She never helped and she started to 'show off' as regards her achievements. and then she left... But u know what? time heals! I felt like running back many times, but today after 2years, she's begging me back and God has given me the strength to move on... I'm in my 2nd yr of law school! Time will heal... Ur worth more than that!

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A female reader, s.a.r.ah_ Canada +, writes (11 December 2009):

spend as much time as possible with other friends to make up for the time u used to spend with her.

when she sees u dont need her, and when she needs help studying again, she'll probably try to go back to you.

but dont do it, she'll just do everything she already did again.

people like that dont deserve your time.

goodluck :)

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