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My usually outgoing, goofy b/f has come home very quiet

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Question - (11 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ennykay writes:

We've been together, and living together for almost 4 months now. He went to his moms for thanksgiving and just came back Tues dec.8 A lot of stuff came up that he had to help his mom with. Now he's finally home. But I can't help but notice something is wrong. He is usually very outgoing, goofy, ect. He is being very quiet and sleeping a lot. And we haven't even kissed or had sex since he's been back. What is going on? Is it just like it's back to the beginning of our relationship,or is this normal? HELP

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A male reader, Justmeagain United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2009):

Have you spoke to him about this? It could be that hes just got a lot on at work, he may be holding back...... doesn1t want to get you stressed. IS HE JUST A PROUD MAN?????

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (11 December 2009):

person12345 agony auntNo, this is not normal. Sounds like something happened while home that upset him. You should probably talk to him about it.

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A male reader, redsox29 United States +, writes (11 December 2009):

I don't think you have to worry about the end of the relationship. You just need to reassure him that you are there for him and tell him that he can trust you and ask him to share what's troubling him. I really think that he just may be stressed about things that may be going on at home.

The only way for any relationship to succeed is to open the lines of communication. If he won't take that first step, you may have to step up and be the man.

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