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My boyfriend had sex with my ex-boyfriend, I can't cope with this, please help?

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Question - (11 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2009)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm a 24 year old with a 3 year old baby. Me and my new partner have been together for 18 months now.

I'd been on a girls night out, and left my partner in with the baby, he agreed to it.

However, when I came back from my night out, what happened shocked me - my partner was having sex with my ex-partner (my 3-year-old son's father) on the living room floor. My son was asleep in his cot in the same room.

I feel disgusted with these two men. How could they betray me like this? Yeuch, this is vile and sick.

I feel like I've been in a relationship with this guy for nothing. Yet he was a good father figure to my son.

I'm feeling down just thinking about it.

Talking to my partner about it does not help, he just laughs about the incident, and I have no idea why he did it.

Please help me, I just cannot cope.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009):

He just laughs after he cheated on you with another man??!!! Definitely dump him!!! Unfortunately you will still have to have contact with the baby's father, but there is no reason to keep the other scumbag around.

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