Need advice on how to go on with life..

A male age 51-59, *lazem writes:

I have been in love with a women for 15 years ,and for 15 years living a life full of lies,She was a friends girlfriend at the time,He introduced her to me and for some reason we had this connection from the first time we set eyes on eachother.We are both very kind people and at the time we where both in relationships,it all started when we would do things with other friends ,the both of them would never come,for example to friends cottage we would always be together and one thing led to another the next thing you know we where sleeping together,we had been seeing each other sometimes twice three times a week,well to make this short she asked me to marry her the day before her wedding in tears,I told why wait for so long to tell me,she had told me that she loved me about a year and half after we had meant and I told never to say it again because I was so worried about losing friends,it's funny that the people we used to go to the cottage always said you to should be together seeing that we where always together.Well we are still seeing each other we are both married to the same people,my heart has always been with her and I have two beautifully kids,and she has beautiful daughter,he is nothing like me he never did appreciate what he has,he treats her like a slave and hurst to see her unhappy,We always said we would be in a retirement home together,but I turned 40 and for some reason I want to spend the rest of my life with her,she feels the same way,but she is afraid what he would do if he where to find out,he is not all there.I don't know what to do,I have always wondered if there are other people in the same shoes.

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