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I'm really confused and freaked out

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Question - (18 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a group of men stalking me-I dont't know who they are or what they want-they will follow me onfoot ,taking it in turns every couple of streets or in their cars-Im really freaked out -can you think of any reason why a group of 8 men would be following a 20 year old girl- Id feel better if I at least knew what they are likely to do or not do- I mean they cant all be obsessed with me,I dont know any of them ,I dont owe anyone any money-I know the police would think Im either lying or crazy-have you ever heard anything like this before-if so what was it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thankyou guys-I feel better about going to the police now and less isolated to know someone beleives me

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2009):

The police have a duty to follow up on every report they get.

After a good few failings in the system recently they now are super careful about this kind of thing.

Go and tell them what you know, car registrations, etc.

It could be that one of them has a crush on you. It could be that they live nearby and just always cruise around. It could be something more sinister.

Report it and you will find out.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

This must be really frightening for you. I can't explain why these men might be following you, I really don't know. These things can happen though. When I first moved into a new area, I got pestered a lot by the guys round here, and at times I felt quite threatened. Like you, I also couldn't understand it, there's nothing particularly special about me!

Can you talk to someone, anyone, about this? If you keep it to yourself, it will probably seem more frightening. If you tell people, then they will also be able to keep an eye out for you, and check to see if you are okay.

I don't know how long this has been going on, but if you are feeling threatened, then I would say also talk to the police. Don't worry about seeming silly or crazy-the police are there to protect people. Even if it turns out to be nothing, and I hope it does, then you will at least have found out and can put your mind at ease. But it's not worth taking any chances, not with your safety.

I really hope you tell someone about this, so you are not alone. I hope you get to the bottom of this, and that everything works out okay. You are in my thoughts. x

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