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anonymous
writes:Ok so this is for the girls mostly, but if guys you have been through it too by all means let me know what you think. My ex broke up with me in January and initially we did not talk for a while. For your information we had been going out for about a year and a half. However since about early March she seems to IM me randomly and called a few times. We are civil and she's real nice but then every time about half way into a conversation she turns real cold, brings up past problems and either hangs up or signs off. Finally I had enough of this and decided we should meet in person so we can both move on (we both are seeing other people) and have closure. We start talking, and once again BAM she wants to fight with me and runs out saying "I can't be here any more". As I'm driving away she calls me and wants to chat on the phone!! We do and it's all good. A few days later I IM her and she says "why are you talking to me". What the hell is this??
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): it seems like shes pretty confused her self.. its clear she still has feelings for you which she doesnt know how to handle. i guess she wants to see abit efford from you to try and work things out and see if you both could give it another try. from the look of it she doesnt look like she just wants to be friends with you because then she wouldnt keep bringing up the past as she would have let go by now.
The best thing to do is meet up with her and talk to her, tell her your confussed and you dont know what shes trying to do, shes less likely to say im trying to get back with you but im hoping you will get an idea of whats going through her head.
hope it helped =]
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