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writes:My boyfriend is not calling me... Why??I guess it started with a few days ago. I know this may seem long but please read..it's actually a quick read and i really need to know why??He came over even though I told him I was sick and that it may be best for him to stay away.When he got in the bed he wanted to grind on me like he usually does. When he got on top of me I said: NO I'm sick. Then we fell asleep, but in the morning he tried again but he didnt listen to me. I told him no I'm still sick. He said I didnt seem sick. I noticed he'd put a condom on. I ripped it off. He started laughing and he put it back on. He was like man why'd u do that..I said because I dont want to do this.Then he started pulling my underwear down. The whole time I was laying on my stomach- half asleep- and he was crouching on top of me. I pulled my underwear back up but then he quickly pulled it down again. I thought he'd stop. He got on top of me and he kept begging saying please, please, please as he was grinding his penis against my vagina(we've never done more than that since im a virgin an im not ready) but that feels like what i think sex would be except on the outside. I kept telling him no please get off. I dont want to do this. I mean it. And I kept trying to push him off but he does security so he's strong..Eventually he stopped. Then the next day he realized he forgot some clothes he said he needed for work. i was really busy so I missed all his calls and then he sent 4 texts and a voice mail saying "IS IT OVER..i need to know?? just tell me?" so I let him come pick up his stuff and i told him to calm down because i was just busy BUT I told him I didnt feel comfortable with him sleeping next to me. He told me he was sorry because he did do it when I said no. But later he said that I should be over it..that it shouldnt be that big of a deal and that he couldnt control himself.What if this happened to your sister I said? He said there would be problems for her boyfriend. I told him : see someone should beat u up..The next day everything went wrong in my life and i missed him so I asked him to come over and i told him I really missed him.. he said he'd call me afterwork and then he hung uphe hasnt called me back since its been 4 days ...Why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): he sounds like a jerk, you'd be better off without him in your life. kellyxxx is right he is only after one thing and if he doesnt get it from you he'll probably be trying somewhere else
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe've never had sex and we've been dating for four months
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (18 April 2009):
He sounds like a rapist in the making! Stay away from him! And if a guy doesn't call when he has had no sex it means he is using you for sex! This is a life lesson, learn it now and you will benefit! Stay away from him! X
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