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anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship for a year now and I love my girlfriend to death. The only thing thats bothering me is I have began to have feelings for another girl. I feel like she is my true soulmate but I know that I can never have her. As long as shes in my life she is affecting my relationship but I dont want to let her go and everytime i try to i always end up starting to talk to her again. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Hey man,
I have the exact same problem, however I actually went through with it and broke up with my girlfriend who I loved and still very much do. It was the biggest and hardest mistake i've ever made. I've felt terrible for days and i'm not getting any sleep. And all I want is to be back with her. If you really love your girlfriend, then embrace that and try to realize what you have without having to lose it first. Now I feel so heartbroken I could care less for the other girl because I have realized what I have lost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2007): ok dude heres what u do u have to make sure u love this other girl and u have to make sure she loves u back cuz u might make a big mistake and dumo ur g-f for her and she might not love u like u love her,
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reader, xxmissxx  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 If you truely want to persue this soulmate of yours, ask her first what she thinks.If she agrees she feels the same for you as you do for her, then let your current gf go, as said by someone else, shed be hurt and offended that you found your soulmate in someone else!You only live once, and youve got time on your side at your age! Dont waste your life being with someone you dont feel 100% about. Go find your soulmate!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): Well if I had a bf who felt the way you feel about another girl I would be terribly offended if he stayed with me. Why? Because I deserve to be with someone who thinks that I am his soulmate. So in my opinion you should dump your gf regardless of whether you can be with the other girl or not. Because clearly you don't feel that way about your gf. And she deserves to be with someone who DOES feel that way about her. Don't be selfish. I say let her go.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (19 September 2007):
 if you know you could never have her, but are in a happy relationship, i think you know what you need to do. you need to let this girl go, for good, for the sake of the relationship you are in, because beleive me, if your girlfriend is a perfect catch, it's hard to come by those.
i understand it's difficult when you feel the other girl is your soulmate but if you don't feel that in you girlfriend, maybe you should try looking deeper or listen to what your heart is saying rather than your head.
if its effecting your relationship you must know it is best to cut all ties and get on with your life.
i wish you luck.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (19 September 2007):
Since most girls don't want a threesome you should make a firm choice and man up and stick to it.
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