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writes:is it okei if my bf is an addict on online games and dont have time for me?
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 when you come second to a computer screen, that is never a good thing. it's easy enough to say talk to him, but if he doesn't realise he has an issue, then yuo'll be talking to a brick wall. the only person who can help him is himself but he has to admit that he is a gambling addict first and without meaning to sound disrespectful to you, it isn't helping that your still with him. because if you're there he has the comfort and contentment that he has someone to fall back on if he screws up.it's like drugs and alcohol, he needs to seek help, when he is ready, by himself. he's not able to hold a relationship with you and the gambling.speak to him and say, it's taking it's toll on you, yuo feel unwanted and unloved, the computer is his life and you don't fit in. tell him you want something more and if he agrees to get help, stand by him and give the support he needs, if not, then walk away, knowing you tried.good luck
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reader, beautifultrustnlover  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 no talk to him
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