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Archived questions from: 28 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I do all the work, my partner is lazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - when having intercouse i feel my partner is lazy wether i am on top /below /front /back i seem to be the one doing all the work we weigh the same and him being a man feel he should be stronger at times i jus dread sex cause i know what the routine ...

Fours years together, great sex before, now nothing, he's too tired, what is the problem here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hey Everybody, I need some serious help, I have been with my bf for nearly four years and we just don't have sex anymore or we do its lucky if it once a year! Its that bad that it makes me think he is either cheating and getting it somewhere els...

Is it illegal for a step-brother and step-sister to have a baby together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - is it illegal for a step brother and step sister to have a baby together?...

Keeping sex all in the family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - okay i had sex with this woman that i knew for a while then i had sex with her teenage daughter now i want to have sex with her daughter's cousins who's 21 is it wrong because i'm not in a relationship with neither of these ladies?...

I think he was very rude to me after I spotted his white duvet a bit, what do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I hope people don't find this too personal a question but here goes. Recently I have had sex with my fiance and unfortunately I have started spotting. He has pure white sheets and I sat on a towel but two very tiny smudges got on his white duvet. I ...

We're sexually incompatible

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - during sex my boyfreinds ercetion seems to get worse and he keeps insisting that he is erect no matter how hard he tries i have now lost interset in having sex.i say lets try different positions but hes quite set in his ways , he likes playing with ...

He's a FWB and dating others! How do I distance myself emotionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have been dating a man I met online for about 6 weeks. It turned into sort of a "friends with benefits" situation right away, which was fine with me. He was only four weeks out from a messy marriage separation and I knew our relatio...

Tips on what men like in bed....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Ok I have been with my boyfriend for a good while now and this is stupid but I figured I could get tips and advice here... So anyhow I was wanting to know what are somethings men like while in bed! Our sex life is wonderful and full of passion but I ...

Orgasms and virginity

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - i've had orgasms a couple of times before but no one ever touched me and i'm about to have the first sex , i dont know if im a virgin or not, so can having orgasms affect my virginity???? and if i am , will it hurt or bleed?????? im really scared ...

Broke up and now she wants the FWB

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I posted a question earlier saying that my ex GF dumped me almost two months ago, she starts talking to me again recently, and she wants to hang out. We talked last night and she says she isn't ready for a relationship with anyone at the moment, but ...

How do I satisfy a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - My last Question get satisfatory answer? Thanks to all? I am little confused about girls that when she has cum in sexual intercourse. normally it takes how much time to get girls have cum. can every girls have cum by sexual intercourse? what...

He starts his day by looking at other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 24 and my bf is 25. We have been together for 10 months. 6 months into the relationship after he rejected my advances, I walked in on him getting off to porn. We have lived together for the whole 10 months we have been together and apa...

I really like him but I want more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Met this guy 2 weeks ago and got on really well... we arranged to meet again after he returned from a week away on business, but he texted me and said work was manic, and really he could only give me good sex at the moment. B/c I really liked him I ...

Confused about women's bodies and sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - Hi Dear Members? I am 25 years, I have lot of confusion about women body and their sex organs. because I don't have sex yet. so, can you pls tell me What is hymen? is this releted with menstruation? is it true that every girls have bleed i...

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. He is my first boyfriend. I am also a virgin. So I've always said I would not have sex until I was married. But more and more, it's getting harder between my boyfriend and I. Today, we were ...

Virgins: the next endangered species soon to become extinct

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - why wait? thats what everyone is asking. in this world virgins have become an endangered species and are fast becoming extinct. waiting for marriage is now outdated. i wonder why. in the begining sex was a celebration of love between two people who ...

I'm confused by the mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - So, last night, my ex that I was with for 5 years came over to my house. He said he was coming over to help me forget at least for a little while about a friends death. He came over at around 10:00pm and left at around 2:00am. He did try to have sex ...

What are the chances a girl keeps her virginity until marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I'm just wondering how many girls keep their virginity until 20 + or until they get married ? I really have no idea about that so thanks for your answer by the way....

Dating for five months but no sex yet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 5 months now and we haven’t had sex yet which isn’t exactly a bad thing but he always makes up some excuse like if my child wakes up or he drank too much or its too soon. We have had some foreplay but when I try to ...

Should I keep having sex with my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I dated a girl on and off for 5 years, starting when we were 17. She would leave me for other guys because it was attention from someone new; I think she was trying to reassure herself she was pretty. Then she would say she misses me, and I would ...

Could having an orgasm help my period start?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi, im 14 and havent had my period yet! idk if theres something wrong with me but all my friends have it. Im not under developed. Ok but i was wondering if maybe an ogasm could have had an effect on me getting my period or not?? i need answers! ...

Should I tell her I had sex with others while we were apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - If you lied to your significant other about what you did sexually during a brakeup period (not just a temporary split) , should the other person know everything? I wasnt fuly truthful to my g/f , she knows I messed around , but not that i had sex. ...

I regret sleeping with him now and feel so stupid for doing so!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hello. I am extremly worried. I done something that I feel completely silly about. I feel like such a silly little girl. Any feedback and comments would be very much appreicated. I have known this guy for a while and deicded to meet up with him...