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Archived questions from: 5 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I've been considering the idea of occasional casual sex with a friend. What do you reckon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Lately I've been considering the idea of occasional casual sex with a friend. I've never has casual sex before with someone I'm friends with. One reason is that there are a couple friends of mine who I have always wondered about sleeping with. ...

How to make him last longer in bed or reassure him without being patronising?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - So I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 18 months now, and i absolutely adore him, trust him, love him and hes lovely. He is my first serious boyfriend, first love, first proper sexual relationship. However, even though sex isnt a domin...

My girlfriends screaming, caused complaints in a hotel, I'm so embarrassed, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - My new girlfriend makes a lot of noise during sex, she moans during and almost screams when she cums, i should be happy that i'm making her satisfied in bed but it's really embarassing and i'm worried the neighbours will hear us. My ex gf was very ...

Pregnant...but I don't know who the father is!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I am in such a dilemma. Three months ago, I was at my boyfriend's house and he had to leave suddenly after a very secretive phone call he made to someone. My suspicion is that he was calling another girl, whom I know to be my ex-best friend. I think ...

What made her change her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 14 years. For the first few years, she enjoyed receiving oral sex although she never had an orgasm through oral sex. Now, she doesn't even like it and only allows me to give it to her if I ask. I don't know ...

Did she piss the bed when we were having sex???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Ok well, at the weekend this girl I've been seeing was at mine, and it went places. Long story short.. We got into sex, and everything, but then... I felt the bed and it was soaking wet, with a distinct smell. I ignored it... but it stayed, I too...

A 3-some gone wrong!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Hey, I really need some advice for my best friend. She has been in a relationship with this guy for some time and its her first sexual relationship. A few days ago it was his birthday and she gave him a little surprise... he's always wanted a...

Won't have sex with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - i dont understand whats gone wrong in my marriage,I need advice!I have been with my husband for nealry 21 years,we have 4 children that still live at home.He is the boss at his work so he's always on call.I work weekends mostly.but in the last 4 ...

Husband's porn viewing has made me feel small

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My husband's porn viewing has made me feel small recently. He's been looking at pictures of "hot guys", shirtless pictures of men including Gael Garcia Bernal, George Clooney, David Beckham and Russell Brand. It makes me feel like I can't compete ...

My boyfriend used to be an animal in bed. Now he won't even look at me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. He’s perfect and I love him, but (same old story) we now have nooooo sex life! Yes, I know, heard it all before, but I never thought it would be me! I’ve always had a really exciting sex li...

What motivates a man to want friendship after a one night stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I’d really appreciate a male perspective on this please. Have you ever had a one night stand with a woman and then become really good friends with her afterwards? I don’t understand what would motivate a guy to keep in touch, as a friend, afte...

I get erections all the time but they aren't as hard as they used to be which is a bother, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Hi Ive been with my partner about a year now, things are generally good, apart from in the bedroom. This weekend for the second time in a few months i wasnt able to get hard enough for sex with her on top, i do find her attractive but- when sh...

I'm in a sexless marriage and I'm soooo frustrated!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Well, I have a sad situation. My husband, does not desire any sex. I don't know why. He suddenly lost his erection once, and than next time he couldn't get it up at all. He went to doctors, but they didn't find anything wrong. Now, he never wa...

Am I turning into a nympo?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I am 27 years old and recently started dating a new guy. I always enjoyed sex and orgasm regularly. My new guy is amazing is amazing in bed, orgasming with him is something I never felt before. He has even made me squirt which no until that point I ...

Doggy style hurts bad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - When me and my boyfriend have sex in every other position, but doggy style, it feels great. But as soon as we try it doggy style, it kills me and we end up having to switch positions. Is there somthing wrong with me?...