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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Surgery to get my virginity back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - can i do surgery, and have my virginity back the same way that it was before i wont be tithe ...

I'm 14..should I have sex with him?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Umm ok, lets try this one... My boyfriends has problems i mean thats very clear... just all those other things i asked are kinda stupid..but he wants to have sex. but i dont think i am ready. what should i do? Also he keeps talking about having a ...

He got another woman pregnant...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I need some help. Last summer i was seeing this lad who is 4 years older than me for a few months, we got together, but because of the age gap it never went anywhere and we stopped talking. This January we got together properly, our relationship...

When is an appropriate time to take it to the next level?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so i've been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks. Last week, I went to his house and things got a bit steamy. We were kissing and our hands were all over each other and he went 'down there' with his hand and I was literally soaking. Is this a turn ...

What should I think or do about his Erectile dysfunction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I'm really at the end of my rope. My husband is just off sex. It is very painful. He once lost it in middle of intercourse,and than since he is limp.. And he WENT TO DOCTORS, but they can't find anything wrong with him... We are in this situati...

He's in jail and wants phone sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is in jail and is asking me to have phone sex with him. i never had sex with him as i was only with him for 2 weeks before he went to jail and wanted to take things slow. he has a moblie phone (cell phone) in jail which he bought ...

Can't stop thinking about girlfriends past

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - I cannot stop thinking about my girlfriend's sexual past. I have asked about it and regret doing so because I can't stop thinking about it and have found out she has had sex with more people than I have but she hasn't said how many and won't. She ...

Would this be considered rape?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, ok I feel kind of stupid asking this. Ok last week I ended things with my BF of 2 1/2 years. He had become verbally abusive, but always saying the comments were "just joking and you know I don't really mean that". It took me about 6m...

Broken-hearted 15 year old daughter who lost her virginity to a guy she "loved"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I am the mother of a 15 year old daughter (soon to be 16). Her boyfriend broke up with her suddenly after going out for 6 months. He claimed he "loved her" even up until the night before her broke up with her. His reason for ending the ...

Does he want me to act like a pornstar?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - About a month ago my boyfriend asked me if we could have sex in a different position (just to make things a little different) i'd already been on top, so he said why not face the other way? I instantly felt uncomfortable and said no. I asked why he ...

Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...

Should I be worried or go with the flow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - I am Bi and my gf is straight. We have been dating now for some time, and things are going really well. We are both kinky and enjoy the occasional addition of an extra guy. I know you must be thinking so here we go...Well we have had extra guy ...

I'm scared to have sex with my boyfriend who is 11 years older than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I'm 19 year old and since i've been 14 im attracted to older man. My first boyfriend that lasted 2 years and half was 28 and i was 14, he was the best he used to take me out to eat, picked me up at school, took me out ect. We kissed, hugged and ...

No sex with me but looking at porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi. I've never done this before, but then again...I've never had the sort of problem that I have now. I am 26, and have a bf that is 28. When things started out, they were good. My bf seemed really into me. Lately, (and we've been together a ...

I'm a teenage horndog

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - Hi im a 14 -soon to be 15 year old guy and me and my girl friend are in a very high level of "LIKE". any ways i love her to peices and we do everything together so great.........but ihave two problems....okay me and my gf make out all the ...

Can't get turned on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - hi, me and my boyfriend were having sex and i could not get turned on i don't know what wrong if its me or him but i would like to have sex with him and get turned on. this is the first time that this has happened we have sex lots of time and i ...

I'm not sure if I'm what he wants physically

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 180 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - before my husband and i got married it seemed as if he had a completely different sex drive. we've only been married a few months, but i can't help but feel unattractive towards him. before we got together he had many different sexual partners, and ...