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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is this a threesome?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hi, yesterday, my best friend (female), her boyfriend, and I (female) engaged in sexual activites. We were thinking about it this morning, and were unsure what to call it. He did not penetrate me, but he did with her. We all got off, and we were ...

My boyfriend says that sometimes I am wetter and loser. Why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me that every now and then when we have sex I feel wetter and looser for some reason. He thinks I cheated. Is there any logical reason this could happen. I have not cheated on him....

We are so well suited... But he's not content with JUST me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 199 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - I'm a gay man in SF...I'm in a relationship (5) years now with a man who confuses me. I'm 38, he's 53 but the age difference doesn't really matter...in many ways we are well matched. We disagree about sex...I want monogamy, he doesn't. The...

Do best mates make the best lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 199 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I'm looking for advices from both genders and all age groups, thanks! I have heard this saying a number of times already (mainly family and friends trying to give me advice): "Best mates make the best lovers." Is that true?...

Why are the first few months the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - In a relationship why are the first few months the sex is the best? And after that new love thing is over why do I suddenly get over it and not want to have sex with him anymore? ...

My inability to orgasm is really frustrating me and my boyfriend!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I can't orgasm! It's really starting to frusterate me, as well as my boyfriend. We've talked about it and at the beginning of our relationship he used to get really mad at me, but he realized that just put pressure on me so now he says he doesn't ...

Oral sex? So embarassing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - please help.. this is soooo embarrassing!! ok so ive been in a few relationships the longest being 4 years and im quite adventurous in bed but the problem is when it comes down to oral sex i get so embarrassed! i dont have a problem recievin...

Sexually incompatible but everything else in our marriage is good!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

7 May 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for ten years. All 'n all we have a good relationship, except our sex lives. I'd like some "outside perspectives" over what the problem(s) might be, and what others have expereinced, so I appreciate your feedback. ...

French kissing and wanting more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - A quick question when you are french kissing a guy and you feel how excited he is (if he puts your hand on it) is he wanting more and if so what does he actually want you to do, I am very inexperienced and I have never went any further than french ...

Seeing each other for 6 months but only got to second base?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been official for 4 months now and seeing eachother for about 6 and we're only on second base. The only first move other than kissing he's ever made was to feel me up the first time; since then, I've been the one having to ...

My boyfriend wants to have sex, I don't think I have enough experience tp please him, what do I need to know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - ok im new to the hole sex thing and i really want to hear how to so it by someone that has please my boy friend is really wanting me to do this and i keep telling him to wait so help!!...

I'm scared the condom will break!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm not on birth control and I want to have sex but I'm a scaredy cat and I'm scared the condom will break but I don't want to get on any kind of birth control. What should I do?...

Is this why he's suddenly given up on things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 23 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm an 19 year old girl and I've been seeing my new fella (he's 21) for about 6 weeks. He's amazing :) However. The sex started off great - loving, sexy, respectful, lots of foreplay. Now he is still loving and sexy and respectful, but he ...