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Archived questions from: 25 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

One night stand now I'm afraid he's going to think I do that all the time!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - im just out of 41/2 yr relationship i have 2 kids,we knew a yr ago it was over but i thought he would change he didnt so i finally got the courage to ask him to leave.it was hard, 4mths later im moving on.i'v liked a friend of mine for a while now,i ...

Should I just tell her what I want to do to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - I really really really want to have sex with a girl right now. I'm starting to get older and still am a virgin. Sorry if this sounds messed up or anything but I can't stop thinking about it. I'm just a regular quiet and shy guy around girls. ...

Ladies, do you prefer pubic hair on your guys or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - hey, I've been seeing a girl for about a month now, we've decided to move things on a bit and starting to do sexual stuff. Do girls prefer a guy with a bit of hair or not? I've not done anything before and do not want to be embarrised by my ...

What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?...

How do I tell her I need more without sounding like a jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - I have a much higher sex drive than my bf and I struggle all the time with our level of intimacy. I know I should talk to him about it but I am worried it will make him unenthusiastic as he is making more of an effort, plus he has been a but ...

He only wants fun and I want more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I'm not sure I have done the right thing. A bit of a long story - me and a guy at work have been flirtng for years and we have both said we like each other - the problem - he only wants "fun" and I want more. We have kissed once, very...

I want to make love to my boyfriend, but it is wrong in my culture

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - I am so confused. I'm 18 years old girl i've got a 24 year old boyfriend he's muslim i'm sikh. we've only been dating for a month but knew eachother 2 months before and we have even had our little up and downs but i love him so much and vice ve...

Sex is very painful if I don't have it often

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 182 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Hey, yesterday i had sex with my boyf after going without for 2 weeks. Unfortunatly i get really tight if i go without for that amount of time and its like my first time again when i do have it (minus the blood). Anyway, while he was putting ...

Supprise sex! Should I talk to him about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - So I've been out with this guy a couple of times. The other night we went back to his place and started hooking up. He pulled out a condom, and I said no, I'm not ready to have sex. He said he understood, and we just went back to fooling around. All ...

His greatest fear is getting a female pregnant..so why ask to ejaculate inside her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - A man's perspective would be most helpful, but if any women have any understanding of this as well, I'll take whatever you have to say-- Why would a man repeatedly fantasize about and ask to come in a woman during unprotected sex, when he also say...

Interested in my "friends with benefits" guy to be more, should I just tell him or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

25 May 2009 (?) - I have had a "friends with benefits" situation for about a year now and although he is just a friend whom I see very very infrequently (sometimes twice a month, sometimes once every three months, depending on our workloads and whether we're dating ...

Is it safe to have sex while on your period with a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Is it safe to have sex while you are on your period with no condom? Im not talking about safe as in pregnant safe, im talking about disease safe, like could you catch aids from doing it during this time?...

Always the lover - not the girlfriend. What AM I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - Hi, So I commonly start dating people and fall for them. And they don't want to be my boyfriend, but instead my lover. In the recent instances of this, it is because they don't feel as strong a connection with me as they have previously felt ...

He's big! Looking for position suggestions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is a big guy, 6'2" and 350lbs i am 5'2" and about 125lbs. My problem is i want a suggestion on a good position to do it due to our size difference. i cant go on top well cause i have neuropothy in my legs and feet so there is no ...

How do I gag without actually throwing up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) - ok....so my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 2 years and we sometimes watch porn together to spice things up. he asked me if i was willing to gag like they do on porn films. i'm always up for trying new things and it was fine for a ...

I know I need to let go of the past, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

25 May 2009 (M) - Alright, so I've met this girl and she is incredible. We love each other and everything is just hunky dorey. There's only one thing wrong. It's her sexual past. I was a virgin before I met her, but she wasn't.It's not too bad, but it still eats me ...