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Archived questions from: 14 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I can't stop thinking of another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I'm happily married to my husband of 4 years (together for 8) but we barely have sex. Everything else in our marriage is great except the sex, or lack there of. In the past 2 years I keep finding myself attracted to other men who show me clear signs ...

What's love got to do with it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hello readers...... I am going to give you a how to on when you know it is the right time or not to have sex. This is especially for the young readers. The one thing that we as women want to know that someone we are in a serious relationship with ...

I'm scared he might get me pregnant!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - See i wanna have sex with him... BUT he scared me the other night when he said...."hunny if we get into the mood i may forget to wear a condom and then what?" and i was like uh no you better not. and he said " well if i do, then we will have us a ...

What does cum taste like?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - hey guys, I was wondering what 'cum' really tastes like? I have heard on here and friends that it tastes real bad and can anyone relate what it tastes like to a certain food or something? so then at least when the time comes I will be ready, so wha...

Flick it or lap it up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - I want to give my girlfriend Oral for the first time this weekend, but, as its my and her first time, im a bit short of what to do, so basically? im asking for help and advise? do i just....lick? :S or what?! ...

I'm not easy, just easy to get drunk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I started colege in september and before that i was very quiet i ad only had sex with a guy i was going out with for three years... Then one night i got really drunk and had sex with a guy in my class... Now all the lads think I'm easy and i have ...

I want to have lots of sex and willing to cheat for it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I'm tempted to cheat on my husband, we've been married for less than a year. While dating we had great sex but now he's not into sex like before and I'm horny all the time. I met a guy and we've talking about sex a lot, he wants me to meet him at a ...

I'm horny but scared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I have only slept with one guy (many times) who used me for sex and I think thats why I view sex the way I do now. I have plenty of opportunities but I know I will end up getting attached and I also don't want guys calling me a hoe or liking me any ...

Porn as the aphrodiasc, then sex with me later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Found out my boyfriend doesn't have sex with me without having looked at porn first. How on earth am I supposed to react to that?...

If he wants anal then go gay!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - What is up with guys wanting to try Anal!! I am tired of every single guy i have dated wanting to try it. I am a girl I have a vag... If he wants anal go gay!!... Please explain how a guy sticking his dick in a butt hole with poop coming out of be ...

Too many times for oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - oral sex question i gave head for the first time the other day and im 15 i did it five times is that too much for first time or in general too much anytime? and should i have swallowed please help x...

Trying to have a baby! What are the odds?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend are trying to have a child. While I was on my period we had sex and he came in me. The day after I got off he came in me, and yesterday he came in me and the day b4 that he came in me.. I just wanted to see if you guys that ...

Do most marriages become sexless after 20 years?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Do you think most marriages becomes sexless,after 20 years,and people just decide to stay together? Or it is just my therapist who says that? She says , just read any statistics, on this, people can't be sexual for 40 years..' She said it's no longe...

Oral sex problems....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - my husband wants me to swallow but the taste is horrible...ive tried to get him to eat fruit but he doesnt like any kind of fruit...well here's the thing when he goes down on me he only licks my clit and never puts his tounge in me...if hes not ...

He had permission to get oral from somone else because I don't like doing it but now I'm having second thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Plz help. Ok this is my first time doing this,I really need some advice.So my bf of a lil over a year wants oral sex..I really don't like doing it,so I just tell him no bt we do have sex. Ok so a while back he had asked me to do it prior to u...

How to get over these nerves of sleeping with someone different?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hey, im gunna sound so so so stupid now, iv had sex numerous times with two previous boys, first one i was in a relationship with and the 2nd one was just a friend with 'benefits'. Now i am sort of seeing this boy, i like him but i dont want to get ...

Tips for anal masturbation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Anyone have any good tips for anal masturbation pls? Thanks...

I wake him up because I'm masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - during the middle if the night in my sleep without been consious my partner has just told me that i wake him up master bating. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active and Im not sure why Im doing this and have no idea how long it has been going ...

I think I've had an orgasm but not sure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - hey im 17 and well ive had my fair share of boys... imature ones lol buti just need help with wat and orgasum actually feels like ? because i think i have but im not sure .. i got all shakey. also can anyone give me some advice ... im still in...

Husband's rubbish in bed... I've talked to him, how can I make him change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Ok so how do I put this. How do I get my husband to help me get turned on during sex? Usually when we have sex he just does what he needs to and we are done 10 mins at the most. I have talked to him about it but it still has not changed anything. ...

Need sex education about the difference between a clitoris and a vagina.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - hey. I just learned that there is a difference between vaginal and clitoral contact (during sex). could you please enlighten me as to what this difference entails? Thanks!...

It is normal for me to fantasize about porn while I'm having sex with my lady?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - okay so i have a question, and need to know if anyone else goes through this... is it normal for me to fantasize about pornography when im having sex with my girlfriend? can she sense it somehow?...

FWB: should I pick a guy who I don't really like or who I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - So there is this guy I like. But I don't like him enough right now to date him. I'm kind of more looking for a FWB. What should I do ?? If I tell this guy I like him but just want to be FWB maybe he will just see me as that and then later on not ...

Low Libido, Can't Talk About It

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - An interesting thing has happened in my relationship with my wife. I suppose the proper thing to do would be to ask her, but she really gets uncomfortable when talking about sex. This is not new but a condition that has increased over the years. ...