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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Am I getting loser and stretched out and not able to satisfy him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together for about 3 and half years. He is 7 years older than I am. He has quite a high libido and we have always had a pretty steady sex life. In the beginning of our relationship, I felt like I was pretty tight for him and ...

Should I let her give me a bj? Or just say no?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - I have a bad situation, my date which i was taking to prom just as friends really likes me now when i still feel the same about her. We hung out yesterday and she was hitting on me really hard. She just does a lot of things i don't approve of and im ...

I'm confused! He keeps asking me to have sex with him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - i dont regret this, but i think i do :S i no this boy 'c' and he was really sweet to me. so after about 6 months of talking to him on msn, i decided to meet him. he only lived araound the corner from me so it wasent that bad. but the first time i m...

Guys: What does it mean to you if she wants to swallow?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Question for the guys. If a girl wants to swallow your cum, what does it mean to you? Is is special in an emotional way or purely sexual? ...

What can I do to last longer in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - What can I do to last longer in bed if it wasn't for the forplay I'd be done in minutes. I'm not selfish I always please her a few times orally first but when we make love and I'm looking at her bam I'm done.my wife is so hot I just can't control ...

He won't let me swallow his semen

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - My partner wont let me swallow his semen? How do I persuade him. I have had it only once and loved it as I accept it as part of him. Any suggestions....

Best position to conceive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Hi i was just wonering what is the best position to concieve? Now ive heard that missionry is the best but what I really want to know are your chances alot less if the girl is on top?...

Drunken antics whilst we were apart.....now I've lost my sex drive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I recently got back together with my boyfriend (of 5 years) after spending six months apart (but still seeing each other as friends during this time). During our time apart I drunkenly slept with another guy twice.I have two problems here... should ...

Embarassing tastes....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, This is a rather embarrasing issue, which is why Ive gone undercover (save myself blushes!) I have recently developed a really big fetish for ladies in uniform. In my university there is a part of the library which is predominant...

Why do they stare at my crotch?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - I have noticed that alought of girls have started looking at my crotch.Im normal sized but even I notice the bulg and I wouldnt know if it its the same on outher guys because im not a weirdo but that beside the point,What im wondering is why do they ...

Is there a nice way of telling him that I want to end things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - For the last 7 years, i have been in a casual relationship with my ex boyfriend. It has been fun and all, but I dont want to contiue on with this relationship as it has become quite empty and meaningless. I do like him very much, but our ...

Am I ever going to find someone that loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Am i ever going to find someone that loves me? I'm 20 and i feel really sad. i have never had a boyfriend. When i was 6-9yo and 13yo i was sexually abused and even though i know it wasn't my fault i kind of have always felt 'dirty' and as if i...

My boyfriend would rather climax watching porn, than satisfiy me, what can I do about this, please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He enjoys porn alot. I mean alot. At first we had sex frequently and he appeared to enjoy himself. I have always had a high sex drive myself. However, when we were first together he did not ...

He seemed interested, but was it just for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Well, my "love life" was normal until my 3 year relationship with my long time boyfriend ended. I didnt think it would be hard to find another good guy, me and my boyfriend had broken up because things just weren't working out.But, he was a good guy ...

We have been together for 20 years and I am looking for something new in the sex department, any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I have been having a sexual relationship with this guy for over 20 years. I know he is totally happy with what I do, but I am really kinda looking for something new to do. I love giving him oral sex, but I need something new. I've tried different ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend give me oral anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are engaged and have been for the last past year and been together for 5 years now and had a baby last july. since i had been pregnant i noticed my boyfriend stopped giving me oral sex. now i admit when i was pregnant i could not ...

I don't like how my vagina looks now that I've had sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - When I was a virgin (about a month ago) I used to have a nice looking vagina. haha might be weird but yeaah.. my labia or the lips of the vagina covering the hole used to be tucked in and 'juicy'. But now that I've been having sex a lot it changed ...