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anonymous
writes:when having intercouse i feel my partner is lazy wether i am on top /below /front /back i seem to be the one doing all the work we weigh the same and him being a man feel he should be stronger at times i jus dread sex cause i know what the routine is.we dont do sexy dressing coz he dont seem in to that stuff really am sexually frustrated and this makes me think of my ex quite often, i know he loves me but a relationship without good sex is shaky i would never cheat on him but jus dnt know how to tell him all this his machine is not fully loaded and begin to wonder thats why am failing to concieve and most of the bullets just seem to come back out when they have been fired and the sex is not sensual thats because at times i just want him to get done in a hurry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): he might be inexperienced so next time just let him do it if he really wants sex from you he'll do it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): What about trying new sex games with him. Find some games that require him to be active with you:
There are dices you can buy that tells you what to do with the partner.
Play a light version of S/M where you are the slave and he the master (use a blindfold on yourself for example and have your hands tied so that he will have to do absolutely everything)
These are just some ideas. Go to a store where they sell toys and take a look around for more ideas ;)
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reader, Miss Karma Louise +, writes (29 May 2009):
simple answer love.
next time just lay there.
and just think if he wants it..he can come and get it!!
and ur gonna sit back and enjoy the ride.
x good luck x
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