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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I've lost everything because of sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I had a best friend, who eventually became my lover. I never knew we were just friends with benefits, but when i found out i was crushed. When i told him how i really felt towards him, we started to go out and i loved him dearly. We broke up twice, ...

On my period, how do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i slept together for the first time on saturday, and im seeing him tomorrow and think he wants to do it again. i want to again, but not tomorrow as ive just come on my period. however im quite shy about things like this and hes my ...

Why do blokes ask for your number after one night stand then never get in touch?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Why do blokes ask for your number after one night stand then never get in touch? I meet this lovely bloke the other night and i ended up going back to his (i was quite drunk). We got on really well and the sex was great during the night but not so g...

How to ask aguy if he wants to see each other after sleeping together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - basically , a guy ive been un-ofically seeing, which i get on amazing with though when he actaully meets me.Yet we talk online and text alot.:(i have made most the effort to see him,but he came so he must have liked me to some point) ..Weve been on ...

Sex advice needed....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - My fiancee n i are xtian n have bn tog' for the last 10yr.never had sex nor slep tog' n wil b wed at end yr.yesterday we slept tog but never had sex.advice was it wrong?can i ask her for sex next round?...

Texting me for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Last week i wrote to you about the problem i had with my friend and the whole sex with benefits ordeal. After i wrote to you he contined to text me asking for sex, i said i was busy every time hoping he would get the message. Then yest...

I'm having a hard time getting turned on by g/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - Ok honestly is the best policy. I have had no trouble at all with any other woman previous to my current girlfriend of 4 months. We had wonderful sex for the first few times and now I'm having trouble getting turned on! And to be honest I tried it ...

Married, unhappy, unhealthy wife & no sex for 20 years..should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a question that is really troubling me. I am a 62 yr. man and I am married to a good woman for 37 years. She has been decent until the last 10 years when she let herself become morbidly obese and now in the past year, she had a stroke and ...

Is anybody familiar with the idea of "peaking"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - This is a sexual question. Is anybody familiar with the idea of "peaking"- building her level of arousal in steps. If so I would like some advice- I stimulate my girlfriends vagina, and then when she's close, I slow it down a bit, or tr...

Fooling around...and now I cant pee!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were messing around last week. Afterward, it hurt a little more than usual in the next couple of days, and a pain kept lingering. Yesterday, we got... um... naughty in a pool and now every time I use the bathroom I feel a searing...

Was I sexually molested as a child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - was i sexually molested as a child? my best friends dad stroked my breast once n my older cousin felt on my private parts when i was younger. if so, whom should i tell?...

Got really drunk, don't know if I had sex or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I went to a party and got really drunk. i don't remember what happened. i hooked with my ex-BF who i still really like and people are now telling me i hooked up with his mate, but one guy said that we did more than that i am pretty sure that he ment ...

Will I ever be able to swallow?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 19, and my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating for a long time (almost 4 years) and we have recently started experimenting orally. He says that the sexiest thing would be if he could watch me swallow afterwards. I do enjoy perform...

Masturbating to pictures of his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - My live-in boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. 2 years prior he had broken off a long-term relationship after his gf cheated. This past December, I was using his laptop to upload pics to my Facebook account (with his permission, of ...

I really don't like femdom but it seems a big thing for him..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Alright, i'm so totally confused I need to ask for help - and help from males as well as females would be appreciated! My fiance says he's into D/s with me being the submissive, and says he hates dominant women, but sometimes when we're having sex...

Negative pregnacy test, but still no period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Hello all! I have a question and while I think I'm just going to have to wait a week or two more to find out anyways, I feeladvice could help. My period wasdue today. I typically have symptoms before menstration starts. Lower back pain, tender ...

She keeps kissing me, but she has a boyfriend.I can't say no to her.help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - My friend and I have admitted to liking eachother a lot. But she has a boyfriend. I had noticed one time a little bit ago that while we were cuddling (we cuddle and rub noses all the time it's just our thing) we had come very close to kissing. Then ...

Why does a man stop feeling sexual desires for his wife? All opinions appreciated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I was wondering , if I can ever figure this out somehow. Do you know , what reason, a man stop having sexual deisre? Well, my husband used to be very sexual with me. But not anymore. He stoped it ,years ago.. I just think he is not in love wit...