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Archived questions from: 30 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My wife admits that she is lazy in bed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - The problem is that my wife is lazy in bed (she voluntarily admits that herself). Mostly she just assumes whatever position I like and then I take care of both of us. She says *partly* she is not more active because she needs to concentrate on her ...

My husband never comes to bed with me unless he wants sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - hi,just wanted to know if anyone could give me some advice.i am married with two children and pregnant at the moment my husband never comes to bed with me unless we are going to have sex .he has always had an interest in porn and one particular ...

Got stoned and had unprotected sex! What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I'm am 15 years old, i have not done any drugs for 5 months. A couple days ago, my friends had some weed, so i smoked it. A friend(19) I haven't talked to for a long time called me, and I told him I was high. He was like really, well want me to come ...

How do I have a vaginal orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have clitoral orgasms but I have no idea how to have a vaginal one! Anyone any advice? Different positions? How? Thankyou x...

Do men like older virgins?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Men and Older Virgins? I know most men are into young women - especially if they are still chaste and virginal - but what do men think of older women who are still virgins? For example women in their 30s or even 40s as there are still some of us ab...

Is there a chance that I am pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - My partner and i recently had sex and he ejaculated in the same condom more than once. However i was unaware of this, could there be a chance that i am pregnant?...

Worried my insecurities will ruin sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I know I am to young to have sex and I should wait till I am ready and in love but lately I have been very self-conscious about my body. All my friends have almost perfect bodies…but I don’t….when I get undressed its obvious I have baggy breast t...

How can I convince him to do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Im a bisexual boy and I currently going outwith another boy who is gay. We have had anal a couple of times but just before he cums he always pulls out, I always tell him to finsh inside me but he never does. How can I convnce him to d...

Why did my period end so soon and was so late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi, was having unprotected sex with boyfriend for about seven weeks. Period was three weeks late and finished after two days (my periods last 5 days) tests came up negative, and i took four including a hospital one. Whats going on with my body? Wh...

Doggy style versus woman on top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - This is more of a sex question than a relationship one but recently i've discovered that i really like sex in the doggy style position andmy boyfireend really likes it when i'm on top. I was just wonderng what everyone else thinks about these ...

I find oral sex incredibly boring!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years now..and recently he has been asking me to give him oral alot. I dont mind doing it, because i love him and want to satisfy him, but i find it incredibly boring (he says he enjoys it when i do it) but is there ...

How do you spot girls like this and not have to wait so long to have sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Hi I've been dating this girl for about 3 months now. She has consistently told me she wants to wait for sex. The first time I attempted was very early on, about the third date, when she told me she wants to wait at least another month or two. I ...

Should I have sex with this girl I don't know well just for the sake of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Im going to a party soon, and this girls going i was wondering if i should have sex with her there or just mess about as this would be my first time and i want some experiance. And i dont know her that well?...

Had unprotected sex 2 days before my period was due. Any risks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - i had sex with my boyfriend few days before i.e. 2 days before my periods.after having sex i had my periods at the right time.The problem is that even after having my periods safely,do i have chances of being pregnant.plz help..... ...

I am worried I have some kind of ovary problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I've been having sex with my boyfriend for 3-4 months now, we never use protection. I was 1-2 weeks later starting my period, so I took the test which came back undecisive. This morning I came on, but the blood flow is just water, I woke up to the ...

Pantyhose kink! Is this unusual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Hello, I am a young guy in my my twenties. tanned nice body etc. I have a kink for pantyhose and stockings. I like wearing them myself and masturbating in them. I like the thick shiny oness. Or the school opague type. I would also like a girl ...

Am I not a virgin? And do yout hink he didn't like giving me oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend and I always do lots of foreplay, but I wanted to wait until marriage before actually going all the way and having sex. Well my boyfriend got a little carried away and started to stick it in me. I got upset and he stopped, ...

Tips to please my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Im sixteen years old and am going out with this guy i really like, he has already fingered me, and hes amazing, but i feel like i should do something for him. The problem is that i have zero experience and dont know what to do or how to go about it. ...

Sex and virginity

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - hey, ok I have a million questions, but ill ask this one question that I have had in my head for a while. im a virgin and I always think guys want to have sex with me because of that but I also think once I tell a guy im a virgin they don't want to ...

I had sex with him yesterday and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and old friend just started talking to me again. Me and him had sex yesterday, he's 19 going on 20. I don't know what to do, I have known him for a long time, he doesn't want to hurt me. Can someone help me, please...