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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Does liking anal masturbation make me gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Does liking anal masturbation make me gay? does thinking of men when i touch myself make me gay? does asking these questions make me gay Help!...

Can't cum quickly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Hi I have the opposite problem to premature exjaculation, in that I take ages to cum. I can get close on a number of occasions, (have pre-cum), but I can last for ages. Most of the time this isnt a problem, but sometimes it is nice to have a ...

I don't want to be in control at all, I want him to control me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I'm definitely a girl with a rather large submissive streak, I can understand the reason he wants me to be more 'in-control' dure in sex....because, obviously it adds variety and spice to the relationship and it's a fantasy most men seem to have. ...

I'm good firends with my mate's girlfriend, we slept together and like each other, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - I have known my mate for around 5 years and we have lived together for 2 years. I haven’t seen him for a few months because he is currently abroad. He has been with his girlfriend on and off for around 6 years. They have been back on for at least a ...

Is it illegal for a guy to meet a 16 year old on the internet for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Right I have been debating if I should ask this or not but its been doing my head in. I'm 26 and been talking to this woman on msn for about 3 months. We agreed since i was just out of a relationship that it would just be a bit of fun. Anyway ...

How do I warn this woman off my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a lady that is trying to get with him and he was honest enough to tell me. Now, how do I help him stop this woman from coming on to him. ...

Took a test, negative, could I still be pregnant if I haven't gotten my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I was on Birth Control for 2 years, went off of it, didnt get my period for 2 months. Then I had unprotected sex, missed my period (i figured it was probably going to be the same 2 month delay). Still havent gotten my period (3 weeks late). Had ...

What do I do in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Ok so im new to this whole sex thing, ive had sex once with my boyfriend so far, and we have messed around a lot in bed, hes given me oral a few times, hes fingered me a lot and i have given him a hand job a few times. However i cant help but thin...

Sex life gone bad.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years. we are very happy and are moving in together next month. However our sex life annoys me. when we first got together I used to get oral sex from her but wasnt allowed to cum in her mouth, we ha...

I thought we were so well matched sexually but this is not the case now we have moved in together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - My boyfriend of four years gave a very false impression of his sex drive when we were dating. I had no idea at the time. Now that we are living together and our lives are melded I cop his true sex drive/interest which isn't very much. I was hon...

My daughter has given me permission to sleep with her friend and I'm torn over what I should do!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - I'm a single Dad with a 17 year old daughter. She has a friend that's 18. She's been coming around for about 5 or 6 yrs. I have a big house. She's had a room here for about 4 yrs and is here more than anywhere else.(No father around and Mom don't ...

Dreams about anal sex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - i'm a 16 year old, current single, and tbh a little insane, :), anyway, recently i had a dream about this girl that i consider as a sister ( we are not related ) now when i see her i get horney, and constantly thing about it, the thing is we were ...

What do women like in a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - [Moderator note - poster had asked 3 seperate questions but merged them together in order to recieve more answers] is being too romantic wrong, do women get put off by things like poems or flowers? what do women like in a man?... How can men la...

Is sex my anti-depressant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I've found that lately... (due to scheduling) my boyfriend and I haven't been seeing eachother as much which upsets me a little but hey, we got work right, but I guess what I'm confused about is my moods. I mean when I get to see him I'm usually in ...

I want to explore his bum like he explores mines but he's not keen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Hi I am 24 and have been in a relationship for 9 months with a 30 year old man and it has been great. Our sex during this time has mainly involved me being anally receptive, which I have enjoyed a lot. I have recently asked him if we could switch ...

Mastubation or Sex that is the question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Is it sensible to masturbate or to have sex ?...

Do girls lie about being a virgin?:

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - When girls have a bad experience their first time in sex, or regret having sex for their first time. Do they later on lie to their future boyfriends about remaining a virgin?...

Coiuld she be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex, 2 days after she had her periods, and her next month period was late by a week, is there any chance of conception, as we are totally unsure. Please help. It's said that if you have your periods, you have...

I need some sexy things to read, where do I find the right stuff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Hey, I want some sexy things to read, full of passion and sex. Please advice. ...

Am I a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Im 20 and i'm not sure if i'm a virgin or not. I had 'sex' when I was 17 but we didn't finish and he didn't fully do it. I didn't even feel anything. Now all my friends think i'm not a virgin and my boyfriend wants to have sex but i'm going to...

How do I know what foreplay is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me after being with me for six years because I haven't been there for him. It's hard for me doing this cause I have never had to ask anyone for advice but I need to ask someone how do you know what foreplay is? I am not ...

What is foreplay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - I have been having sex for a while but I am not sure what forplay is, I need help with this. ...

I want to try a threesome with another girl. How to get my husband onside?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so this will probably answer itself, but I need advice. I love my husband with all my heart-never loved another man like him in my life. But I've been wondering what being with a woman would be like. I'm not the most "in shape" woman in the ...

Wife goes back on promises to help fulfill sexual fantasies

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - My wife of almost 12 years has made thousands of empty promises over the time we have been together I have wanted to let me give her a facial but it is nothing more than empty promises. We have discussed many fantasies of mine many of which are ...

Relationship with a close friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - There is this girl. She has been my best friend for 8 years or more. There is nothing that I wouldn't do for her. Recently, we have messed around. We both thought it was going to be weird being around each other, but it kind of made us closer. ...

I'm worried I won't be able to satisfy her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - ok ya'll heres my deal im roughly 35 years old, and male i am in a relationship (a fairly new one) we have had sex roughly 4 times, but the past two times, we went to have sex, yesterday and today , it was up, it was strong and seemed ready to go, ...

Why does sex still hurt so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

19 May 2009 (F) - Ok, So i recently lost my virginity to my bf whom I am very much in love with. I am pretty sure I was ready and have no regrets. I've done it five times now and it's not very fun. The first couple times it hurt alot, and not it hurts for like a ...

My penis won't stay up when it comes time for penetration. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - ok so im a virgin and me and my girl have been doin role play kissing for an hour and my penis is hard through tht tht but once we stop and I want to go N my penis gets soft and I can't get it hard enough to penetrate and im to young for viagra ...

We had sex on her period, could she be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - my gf and I had sex. she was still on her period, I didn't ejaculate in her at all, (didn't even come close). the only default is that i didn't wear a condom... is there a chance she could get pregnant and if so, what are the chances?...