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Archived questions from: 21 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Whenever I try to talk about him coming to the doctors with me for a pregnacy test he just changes the subject to sex! What gives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is acting really odd. It all started when I told him I missed two periods and told him about it. For then on all he talks about is sex and not just normal things he talks about how he pees on himself and licks his own cum. Hes nev...

How to make a good wife to my husband during sex time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - How to make a good wife to my husband during bed or sex time?...

Can a relationship work if you are not sexually attracted to your partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Can a relationship work if your not sexually attracted to your partner?...

All the signs of pregnancy but all the tests are coming back negative!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Help! I always have regular periods and i skipped my first ever one two weeks ago! I went to my local family planning clinic a week after it was due to be tested for pregnancy and it came back negative, they told me to wait a week and go back. I ...

I slept with my ex-gf, but she says she's in love with another guy, should I believe her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - Last Week I had sex with my now ex-gf. it's been a month since she broke up, because she told me she didnt love me, but she had feelings for another guy. She gets mad when I tell her she doesn't love this dude even though she slept with me and she's ...

Emergency contraception! Please Help!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - emergency!!!!!!!!!!!! please help this is really urgent. im 15 and i had sex for the second time with my boyfriend about 2 hours ago. However he pulled out of me and the condom wasnt on him we found it just at the opening of me and the tip wa...

Condom broke during sex....where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - i had sex and he finished inside me however when he pulled out the condom had a big hole in the middle. This happened two days after my period had ended and im expecting my period the 8th of june. Are my chances really high im very worried and ...

Dating an older guy and nervous about sleeping with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Ive been dating a older man for a couple of weeks, we have only kissed but im scared of the whole sex thing as him being 6 years older then me im worried hes had much more experience then me as ive only had one sexual partner, also im a curvy girl a ...

He doesn't want me to go back home with him....could this mean he is still with the mother of his children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Ive met this guy hes 29 im 22, we have been on 4 dates and email and text everyday, they were great dates and were so attracted to each other lots of kissing...he lives about a hour away from me ive now asked twice to go back home with him, hes said ...

What would be the reason(s) for husband not wanting sex with wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - What is usually the reson for a man, for not wanting sex at all with their wife? All opinions are great help for me right now. Thanks...

How soon into a relationship is it acceptable to stay the night?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hi all I am in a bit of a quandry. I am 25 years old, and have recently got back into dating after a long spell of being in a LTR and then single getting over it. I have met a lovely man, someone who shares many many of my ideas, loves, ha...

The great porn debate

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - p /> Please check out this post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-could-he-hurt-me-by-watching-pornography.html I was trawling through the site the other day and found the question above. Everyone congratulated this girl jessica on ...

She told me I am better than her boyfriend and she loves me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - alright, last night, i did something, i should be ashamed of but im not, i slept with a girl thats taken, ( dont worry we used protection ) she was screaming really loud, she told me that i was better than her bf, and that she loves me, what sho...

Are my chances of dating him doomed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hello. The other night I slept with this guy who I have known for roughly 5 years, but we very seldom saw each other. We finally hung out the other night and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. I am not like that at all, and have ...

How do you find out what causes impotence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - How can you find out what causes impotence? How do you know ,if its psychological? Is there a good way to do that? thank you...

Is masturbating harmful to my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - I am 25 yrs old, I masturbate 2 to 3 times in day from last 10 yrs. It is harmfull or bad for my marriage life and I thing, may be due to this I am thin also and I ever don't have nightfail, it is normal? pls give me ans.......

It distrubs me very much that he masturbates over pictures of other women, am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I was wondering what people think of fantasising and masturbating over other people when you're in a relationship? I have no problems with my significant other masturbating when he's not with me (i live in a different city) IF he's not thinkin...

He wants the fantasy be become real. I feel devalued.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Ok, I am upset and confused. My husband and I were recently discussing a fantasy that we have discussed before. It is HIS fantasy of watching me with another man either secretly or openly. This was always ok with me because it was just a fantasy ...

How do I tell her that she needs help on her technique?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - How do you tell your babymother that she needs help with giving head. Is there an easy way, and what do you tell her to do. Even though you know that she says just tell me anything, and you know it will hurt her feelings to where she might not do it ...

I feel so weird and confused...and gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - I am 15 years old close to sixteen and im warried about my sex life i truly don't want to be gay because i want a big family but i get attracted 2 men when i was around 5 to 7 i had alot of girlfriends and i was around many guys and i had a best ...