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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He prefers bigger breasts and mine are small...how do I deal with his remarks about that?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to stop being insecure, but I don't know how. Granted, never been the most self confident chick in the block, since I'm not the prettiest. But when we started dating, he used to compliment me a lot which gave me a huge ...

Masturbation help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I recently asked about masturbation and whether it was a sin or not. I'm catholic/christian. I'm pretty sure it is. However, I wanted to make sure that it doesn't affect young girls from becoming infertile in the future or lose their sexual appetite ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to give me a hand job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has fingered me and touched my chest n everything and we really respect each other and have good communication so we're talking about it and he sez he doesnt want me to give him a handjob and i dont know why any ideas?...

Does he not want to see my face?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - Last night me and my boyfriend were having sex. We hadn't been able to have sex the whole week, so we were both very turned on. We were on the couch, he was sitting and I was on top of him. We were face to face. Suddenly I noticed it was taking him ...

Am I allergic to my boyfriends sperm? What's going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - hi. im 16 and a friend of mine told me this was the place to go for questions about sex. well, my boyfriend and i were having sex. (not our first time) and when we got done, my vagina began to swell. is it possible that im allergic to his ...

I caught him red-handed but I still love him. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - here goes: My boyfreind of 5 years has been dealing with some depression and anxiety. he has been going to doctors for this and we have been on and off the whole time. He has lied about his where abouts and who he has been with. And he even joined a...

I'm being beaten down by rumors. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I need some help!!! Basically, I go to an all girl school and it is a very bitchy school. A few months ago my boyfriend came to my school and broke up with me. I was so upset and I didn't want to talk to anyone. Me and my boyfriend (ex no...

I think I'm too much for my wife to handle and I'm not satisfied!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - I was never satified in sex.My wife always surrendered after 20 mins and pleaded to me to stop as she cannot stand anymore as she already had multiple orgasm.I can stay erected and not ejaculate for long period.The fastest so far was about half an ...

Birth control seems to have stolen my girlfriends desire!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend started birth control about a month ago. However, ever since she's been on it, she's been feeling ill pretty much every evening, and on the occasional days she actually feels fine, she's not interested in sex! She tells me she "wan...

My boyfriend has many girlfriends...am I wrong to ask about them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I m in a relationship with a boy for about 1 n half year.He is 5 years older than me . He is simultaneously going around with 2-3 girls n about all he has told me.I have feelings for him.He has said to all his gf that he wnt marry them. He l marry ...

What to do to tighten up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - Ok well I haven't had sex in a year because I'm scared to w/my husband b/c we've had 2 kids my last 1 3mos ago. But the reason I haven't is b/c after my 1st child my vagina was very. Loose to him. Now to me nothing changed it was still great but he ...

Sex just isn't happening!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - Hi! I lost my virginity a few years back with a randomer, didnt use a condom and it just kinda slipped in and worked the way it was supposed to! Since then my experience has been pretty much non-existant. Ive been with my gf now for a few months...

Sex with a random girl felt better than sex with my b/f, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - Help! i have a boyfriend and he went out of town for the week on a business trip and i went out by my self last night and saw this supper hot girl. so i we talk and had a few drinks next thing i new we were on our way back to her apartment. were we ...

Last night I had sex and we forgot to use protection, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - last night i had sex with my boy friend. and well let's just say it wasn't that great and the worst part about it was we forgot to use protection of any kind what do i do if i get pregnant i will be in so much trouble i am only a freshman i know i ...

He took a purity vow, and now no sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - My bf took a purity pledge when he was 17 and in a youth group.But he hasnt gone to church since then. We are now 24 and he still wont have sex. We do oral with each other, and he uses toys on me but wont have sex, even though we talk about getting ...

Unwanted sex with him, now I think he gave me an std

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my bf for about a year and a half. for the last few months we have been feeling like we are not in a relationship togeher because we live an hour away. I have a co-worker who I had a crush on. I got very drunk one night at work (hes ...

Is a man's erection based on his emotions, or something else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - Okay i tried to research this and i can't find exactly what i'm looking for so please someone who knows just answer my question. Is it true that a man's erection is based on his emotions? I believe they are because i'm only turned on my wif...

I was raped, had a miscarriage, now married, very happy but still dealing with the rape, how do I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I need some advice.I was raped on 5/6/99; ten years and two days ago.It took me a very long time to get past all of it and I really thought I was over it.This guy not only raped me, but he got me pregnant;I lost the baby at 5 months due to cessation ...

She wants to do sexual things, I think we are too young, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - I am 14 in a couple of months. I am not sure if it is weird to love someone. I know I am only 14 and have been in this relationship for 5 months so... is that too early to love someone? I do love her and will do a lot of things just to be with her. ...

Is it normal to want to masturbate all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I am 15 Turning 16 in 1 Month I am continually horny and wanting to masterbate, is this normal?...

How do I interest my boyfriend into having anal sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I've been dating this boy for a couple months now and we have a great sex life, but lately I've had this really strong desire to have anal sex with him. But how do I get him to do it? He hasn't really shown any interest and I know I should just ask ...

I'm considering becoming sterile just soI don't screw up here life

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating just short of a year now. We're both 16 and just starting having sex about a month ago. We've only done it a few times. Both with and without condoms. For some reason she hates condoms and doesn't want to take ...