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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why does having sex with someone make me start to have feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Why does having sex with someone make me start to have feelings? I've been having a sexual relationship with a guy I hardly know off and on for a year and sometimes I feel like I love him I know this can't be true just wondering why sex causes that ...

Lost in lust and letting guys use me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Ok well i have this problem, i tend to let guys use me, and i dont know why, i say no but there so hot and good looking that i cave and be sexual with them, but then i end up falling for them and want more but then they stop talking to me and dont ...

Keeping an open mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - girls is it a trun on for your guy to be open minded and open to try anything that u want to try?If so would u do the same for him?Whats the one thing u have always wanted to try but have never told anyone?...

My girl wants to use a strap-on, on me

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - My girl friend asked me if i would let her use a strap-on on me.i told her i would have to think about it and i just dont know what to tell her now.i dont know if that would make me gay...

Sleeping while partner has sex with me

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - hi plz help, in a normal relationship is it right that u should wake up and find your partner has had or is having sex with you this has happend so many times. xxxxxx...

I explode very fast

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - Hi there. I'm 18 and have been having sex for over a year now. On average I last about 5 seconds!!! I've tried everything to last longer in bed. I've strengthened my PC muscle, start and stop etc. On mine and my girlfriends one year anniv...

No sexual desire and can't get an erection

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - Hello! i was wondering if anybody has this problem. I don't feel sexual desire, and I can;t get an erction . So my wife is very frustrated, because She thinks it her. That ,she is not turning me on anymore, and she thinks,I just don't tell this ...

Gay? Or just very open minded?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - i have always wanted to be with a tgirl but i have not got to.but i have found a girl that loves to use her strap on on me and loves ass play.Hell i like it to but now she wants to dress me up in drag i dont know if i should.and does this make me ...

I love my wife but hate being married

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - i have been mairred for about two years and have a kid on the way i love my wife but at the same time i hate being mairred we are not on the same page when it comes to sex i love it and want to try anything and i want it all the time and she is not ...

We can't find the condom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - hi, i had sex with my boyfriend last night, but we couldnt find the condom!! its literally gone n he cnt remeber if he took it off or not, wt shoud i do??? x...

Oral sex replacing hugging and kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - I read in a magazine recently that some people are saying that among teens girls giving casual blow-jobs to boys is replacing regular petting. In other words, hugging and kissing is being replaced by oral sex. Is this true? Is this a dangerous ...

How to climax with just intercourse

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I have a problem everytime I have sex I never climax. I can only climax though oral or playing me playing with my clit. The sex be really great I can feel him inside with so much plesure but still can't climax if him or I dont with clit, is there's ...

Don't Suffer In Silence

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - This is a tribute to my friend who was raped and suffered in silence for two years. Don't suffer in silence! Speak up! This is for all the women (and men) who have been sexually abused. My friend was a normal girl, a straight A student a...

Never reached orgasm..giving b/f confidence issue

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - anytime i make love with my boyfriend i dont reach orgasm easily except he plays with my clitoris.dis is giving me concern cos he feels i can neva be satisfied with him wat do i do?...

How do I help my friend clear her name up? They had sex in the school park & everyone is talking about it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Hello cupids, ok so my friend and her boyfriend (now her ex) has had sex in a school park..so while they were having sex this one girl claimed that she seen them.so now the girl who have seen them been going around our whole school telling ppl what ...

I had sex with my son's friend, do you think my son knows?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - My son (18) is a frshman in college he is also on the baseball team. A few monthsago he had a bunch of friends/Team mates over they were all in the pool. One of his friends walked in the house. He had no shirt on, I was sitting on the couch he came ...

Is her stomach hurting because she hasn't had sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - Hello everyone,okay so my friend is 14 years old and she is has had sex with multiple partners,she has told me she used condoms everytime and her stomach has been hurting lately and she told me she hasnt has sex for a while..could that be the ...

Had sex with a guy who likes to break up relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for a year and a half. for a while we were having trouble with our relationship because we are both full time students in college and we live an hour away from each other. I have this co-worker that I had a crush on. He lead me ...

Dating an oversexed woman and worried about my size

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

13 May 2009 (M) - i just started going out with this lady she is really a oversex woman she was married once before and her ex. was well to do(7.5 to 8) inches i'mnot no way near that 4.5 and 3.75 around. the problem is i don't want to be embaress when i drop my ...

Having trouble with sex, he can't get inside me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having trouble having sex and we have been trying for quite some time now. The problem i think is with me. His penis will not go into my vagina. He can get his fingers in there with some pain but when he gets ready to insert ...

How do I tell a guy I want to get sexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I have been on 2 seperate dates with this guy I like. Ive known him for awhile but just recently let him know I liked him. Hes made several sexual comments (nothing involving us two-but hes def not the prudish type). I would have sex with him but...

He wants me to give him a blowjob at church!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - ok i feel so stupid for doing this.. im only 14, hes 16. but i need some more help. Like i said about my bf wanting sex i told him no lets wait, and i plan on keeping it that way. he said ok. well my parents dont want me to date, so i have to see h...

Why was I wrong to entice older men?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I started having sex when I was 13, and every one of my partners were adult men. There was no coercion or force involved in any of them. I consented to the encounters, and I initiated the sex on each occasion. This did not negatively impact my life. ...

Why does sex hurt the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - why does it hurt the first time you have sex? how do you know your ready? how do know when the right time is? how do you know he's ready, and not doing it to make you happy?...

Should I wait or should I give in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - I am a high school student. i am 16 and my boyfriend is also 16. i have been with him since oct.23.08. it's been about 6 months.I truly do believe i am in love with him. I also belive he is too. he says it. he shows it. and i fall for it. he can be ...