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Archived questions from: 1 May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

First time (69) , clueless... please share your experiences.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend wants to try a (69) and i'm up for it, the thing is I never gave him or anyone oral and I'm pretty inexperienced, unlike him so how should it go? I don't want to be under so that he doesn't smoother me and at the same time I dont ...

I have reached the age of legal consent and wanted to have sex with my long term girlfriend but I couldn't get it up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - I turned 16 ten days ago, and that means I'm legal in my country (UK). I thought that when I was 16 I would not have a problem with having sex, as I did not have to worry about the law etc, but my girlfriend of 8 months and I tried having sex ...

Porn and virginity

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I know this is a stupid question but I was asked to answer it and I actually couldn't answer. If a virgin watched porn and reacted to it, can this rip her hymen?...

He gets frustrated waiting for me to orgasm.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend and I have sex he get frustrated because, he says he holds himself back just to try to make me comm , but he says i take too long and that i wasn't like that!... He is my first one and i dont know much about sex ... the point is i ...

Shaved or not shaved?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - well,this is kind of eeky but i need to know the answer..do guys prefer a clean,shaved bikini area or is it ok to have hair down under?...

Erectile dysfunction - can anyone suggest a way to break the vicious cycle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hi, could any guys or girls out there give me some advice, please? I've been with my bf for 5 years, sex was great at first, but for the last year or so, not so good. My bf cannot maintain an erection, and now he's in a vicious cycle - he worries ...

He doesn't seem to want to make love to me as often as he used to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. We started having sex 10 months after we started dating, and since then all i want to do is make love to him!... everything was ok for 4 months but now he doesnt feel like doing it as ...

When a man has an orgasm. Is it the same feeling as when a women has one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - When a man has an orgasm. Is it the same feeling as when a women has one? Also could a man have an orgasm without actually semen coming out! Say if u were sucking there nipples?...

A question about virginity for all the boys out there

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - This is mainly aimed at boys but girls can answer too, i would like to know, if a girl said that she wanted to lose her virginity to you but didn't want to be in a relationship with you, would you mind? Or would that be a problem for you? Thanks....

Our sex life is terrible and to make things worse my ex who I had a very passionate sex life with is back on the scene!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My husband is a wonderful, temperate, caring husband and father. He is such a great friend and I trust him completely, however, he hates and fears intimacy, sex and passionate kissing. We also have some problems in the communication department as ...

My boyfriend thinks it would be a turn on to watch me having sex with our dog!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 26 and have been with my current bf for almost 3 years. We have a great relationship, he is perfect in many ways. We get along great and have a great sex life. We are both very open at trying new things sexually and I will admit ...

Sex was amazing in the early stages but now we are both feeling frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - i am 21 and my bf is 20 we have been otgether for 2 years and have a child together. i also have one from a previous relationship. sex to bgin with in the early stages was amazing and would last all night for the last 9 months or so he loses hi...

Had sex, but he doesn't call?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I had sex with a guy that i really like too soon and after our intercourse he has been distant,he dosnt call or visit and when i do call he dosnt answer so i stopped.I was hurt and i just cant stop thinking about him,i want to for get him but i dont ...

I think I'm ready, but how do you know if you're ready for a sexual relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hey, Theres been alot of boys who have asked me for sex, hand job, head job etc... But im still a virgin, i havent given head job or hand job or been fingered, the firther-est ive been is like kissing and its really embarressing. I feel that im re...

Why was he so giving in bed and not the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My ex was very selfish and basically used me for sex. I lost my virginity to him and he took advantage of that. He was, however, very giving during sex, which I find really weird. He would always go down on me and I only did it a couple times for ...

My husband is very mean to me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I have been married for 18 years and i am very frustrated and confused about my marriage. I love my husband but i am not in love with him anymore because of the way he treats me. He is the kind of person who punishes me when he does not get his way. ...

He wants anal without a condom

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have recently had anal sex for the first time(with condom). It was great, i felt no pain at all and he enjoyed it alot. We are gonna do it again this weekend, but he wants to do it without a condom and i dont want to. What can i ...

How to seduce my b/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend's sex isn't boring, but..its not very exciting or eventful. We do it, and thats about it. I kinda wanted to spice things up a bit. I drove to the store and bought some sexy leopard print lingre, with some hot pink leopard pr...